i use to be the only girl in the family...... now we are 6 and i'm the oldest and 3 brothers and 2 other sisters..... i use to be the little princess..... now it seems to them i'm nothing.... my 5th sister gets so much attention that she becomes a spoiled brat. i'm always the blame and my parents wouldnt believe a thing i say. they always say "because you are older than her" well i'm only 12 i should get some respect too!!! i always feel left out or jealous now they dont me bring out anymore...... i usually stay at home alone my 3 other brothers agree also that our sister is getting spoiled enough! we really feel left out. they dont go watch me do some activities at school cuz they are busy with my 5th sister and 6th sister. i think they dont love as much as they love my other sisters...... what can i do?? i dont understand why they get more attention!!!
2006-09-16 02:12:07 · 10 answers · asked by maria_michaela12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I want you to stop being so hard on yourself, she is the youngest, and they can't leave her home, she has to be with an adult. but you and your brothers are old enough to stay at home by yourself. It may be a good idea for you and your brothers, either tell your mother how you feel, or write her a letter expressing being left out, try not to be jealous of your sister, it is not her fault, they are spoiling her. You need to try and do the things, to help out around the house, and that way, you are trying to keep the peace, and your mom won"t be on your case so much.Try and be happy.
2006-09-16 02:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you and you brother can ask your parents to talk.. Set down together and let them know all of you are feeling they just don't feel the suppoert you use to have from them... Let them know how this hurts you.. Don't make it a shouting match or a blaming match... Your parents might not relise how you and your brothers are really feelings.. But it is going to take all of you together.. So it doen't seem like you are just being jealous of your sisters... Good luck.....
2006-09-16 02:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by levita45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that they love them more than you. You've just moved onto a higher maturity level that requires less supervision and encouragement. They are younger and require the attention you once had. With time you will all move out and make your own families and you will then see at family reunions how much ALL of you are loved equally.
2006-09-16 03:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that way in a lot of families. They probably think now that you are older you should not need as much attention. Maybe you need to grow up a little and not be jealous.
2006-09-16 02:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully it won't last long. She does require a little more attention because of her age but not so much that the rest of you feel left out. Talk to your parents about this. I am sure they are not aware of the feelings you have.
2006-09-16 02:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by muffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple shes the baby of the family either ur parents don't want /pllanto have any more and r going to spoil their last child belive me i'm the last child in my family but around 13 she'll get whats coming to her they can't spoil her forever
2006-09-16 02:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by leonard 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit your parents down and talk to them about it.... you should not be left out of you family. The family are some of the most important people in your life!
hope i helped! and good luck!
2006-09-16 02:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sen10r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister gets more attention because she's more younger and they need more attention because they hard to take of.I know this because I felt the same too.Talk to your parents about it, and everything will work out, I promise!If it doesn't work, then you can contact me. I hope everything works out!
2006-09-16 10:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by //.S M ii L E S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats part of human life on time our the boss the other your bro or sis will be the one
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i have an advise for you talk to your sis personally talk to her about what you feel or your comments about her etc...
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2006-09-16 02:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by ken b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit your parents down and talk to them....
2006-09-16 02:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋