I am a 15 yr old girl and I have been wanting to be diapered for the last 2 months! Half of me wants to just stop thinking of this stuff but the other half of me wants to be forced into diapers and publicly humiliated! WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? AND WHAT SHOULD I DO? My dad knows and is trying to help me threw it, but my mom wouldn't understand. She told me one time like along time ago that people who want to be babied are werid and yet she was calling me werid with out even knowing it! I don't know what I should do! I feel so, well, different!
2006-09-16 01:43:28 · 6 answers · asked by youngan'curious 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Well it's good that your dad knows about it and is trying to help you through this difficult time for you.
What started these thoughts? Did you see a movie or read something on the internet that made you have these feelings? Did someone bring the topic up in conversation? Do these feelings have sexual overtones to them?
All these questions need to be answered to help you decide which direction you want to head with this.
If there are sexual overtones with the thoughts, then you may just be interested in what a lot of people would call "kinky" sex. The desire to wear diapers by itself isn't all that bad, it is just a fetish.
A lot of people do it, they like the feeling of the bulky diaper between their legs, they like the warm wet feeling when they wet the diaper. Some just like to be babied and diapers brings that more to a reality.
Your thoughts and desires seem to be centered more around a BD/SM type of senario where you are forced to wear them and be humiliated. This is generally a sexually related type of desire. A person that wants this usually gets highly turned on by the though of doing it or by actually completing the act of wearing the diapers and being humiliate.
When it comes to this type of desire, it often runs hand in hand with a liking or desire of enemas too. If you look at a lot of the web sites for ABs (adult babies) or DLs (diaper lovers) you will often find references to enemas and being forced to take one and be diapered right away without expelling it first.
Maybe you should just try wearing diapers without the humiliation part to see how it feels. You may try them and not like it at all and it would put an end to your thoughts. On the other hand you may enjoy them too so be prepared as to what you would do at that point.
If you decide to act out your desires/thoughts then you will need a willing partner to help. That might be the hardest part to accomplish. There aren't a lot of people out there that would take to that possibility. If you find someone that will and he is a loving, caring and understanding person, hold onto him because he is rare.
I wish you luck.
Take care.
2006-09-16 04:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ah,well! I don't know if it is relevant, but maybe you should think about something different. You father seem like a good man, he pays attention. On the other hand your mother looks like some parts of her doesn't want to be bothered with you or your needs, fears, she seems a little callous and indifferent to people's emotions. So try to imagine her in a diaper and see if that works.loll.
Seriously, talk to her and have your dad present. Try to work something out, she may already know (through your dad) and her way to deal with it is to say, nothing. Good luck and cheer up!
2006-09-16 01:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thoughts are just. . . thoughts. They harm no one, they do not damage you and, as long as they don't interfere with your life, they are no problem. Let them be. Actions? No problem either as long as no one gets hurt and you still function as a human being. Lord only knows the source and reason for such things. They are weird only in the sense that relatively few people have the same ones--they all have others though. Counseling and therapy are available if you are bothered to that extent or you have trouble functioning.
2006-09-16 04:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 15 it is time to grow up--you cant be babied anymore. diapered and humiliated may sound good to you now but if it happened it would be hard to make friends. kids of todays world are way beyond cruel and it would humiliate you for a long time. You may need some sort of counceling to help eliminate these depressing feelings.
2006-09-16 01:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wish I had a site bookmark for you but cannot find one but you so need some help hun - heart goes out to you - try mailing Jo.org samaritans but talk this out with someone and feel better about yourself
2006-09-16 01:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by william john l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a well recognized fetish, but fetishes usually dont happen in females. If the thoughts are intrusive, distressing, and interfere with your life, you need to get to a counselor to try and understand whats happening.
2006-09-16 01:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by David B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋