mmm I'm just really want to know if a guy is really a polygamous in nature?! because I really hate it to hear that family is being destroyed and ruin due to the fact that there is a third party involve. And is it true that guys really want that the girl looks pretty or sexy and they don't like butt ugly girls?! And is it possible if the guy already have a girlfreind then he will court another one and tell her that he is still single?!? Do they get jealous also sometime?! And if they love a girl are they serious about it?! And HOW WILL YOU KNOW IF A GUY HAVE A BIG CRUSH ON YOU? And how ill you evr get their attention for you to be notice by them?! Because up to now I'm still afraid to open my heart and let someone to come in into my life, bcause I'm afraid that he will just break and tear my heart into pieces... And I'm afraid that if he will know THe real me and my skeleton in my closet maybe he will dislike me and humiliate me... I don't want a miserable relationship,pain and tears!!!
2006-09-16 01:10:50 · 8 answers · asked by SheeNa c 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
Just too many ramblings here...
2006-09-16 01:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it is the nature of the beast. There are scant, and I do mean scant, decent men out there and some of those are with unappreciative women. If any man approaches you because of how you look don't waste your time. By approach I mean the onslaught not the gentle conversation. You will know the difference believe me. If you are afraid of being hurt then perhaps you should wait until you are emotionally stronger and will be able to handle the heartache that a relationship can bring. Good looking women don't necessarily luck out in love either. Every relationship has the potential of failing. Strong emotion can make a person weak and therefore they will tolerate the cheating and so on and it shouldn't be that way. Don't let anyones physical appearance be a determining factor if you are looking for a long term involvement. The ugliest face and body in the world could belong to the one person who will love you and accept all things about you as you do them.
If there is a "love triangle" thing going and you are in it get out. You are hurting yourself and it's not worth it because if one girl leaves another one will come along. Leave the man who's enjoying himself immensely.
2006-09-16 01:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of these questions have several answers. A guy is a complicated thing. Some guys will treat you like a mat and rip your heart out and others will love you with all their heart and treat you as well as they can. Every guy is different and there is unfortunately no way of knowing a person until you do get to know them. If you are worried my one tip is to take your time. Date a guy for a long time before even talking about having sex. You will get through a few guys this way but these are the ones who are more likely to be thinking about sex and nothing else. A nice guy will wait even if it does torture him.
2006-09-16 01:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by SR13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such is life. Many guys are like that. I would suggest "toughening up" a little. Each time your heart gets broken and you come back, you will be a little stronger and a lot wiser. Don't hide in your shell, this will do nothing but cause you misery.
Thaylen... 'scant' is a little extreme. Perhaps somewhat rare, particularly in the younger segment, but certainly not scant. Apparently, you've been in the wrong crowds.
2006-09-16 02:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Peachy® 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are just dick heads, but same goes for women, people are in general pretty bad peices of work, kind of like cars
2006-09-16 01:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
their are good guys but also lots of bad ones, as with anything you have to try and fail till you get what you really want.
2006-09-16 01:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by ghos_t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PICK SOME ONE WHO IS INTERESTED IN YOU AS A PERSON
NOT AS A BODY TO HAVE SEX WITH
2006-09-16 02:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buddy , basically all guys go on one principle.. that is EVERYTHING IS WORTH A TRY.. and they go on gals on same way.. they
2006-09-16 01:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by Ronnan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋