i just broke up with my ex-bf last month..and i heard frm my close friend that he has a gf while he was with me so he was infact cheated on me all this while..so tell me how to teach this scum a lesson...
2006-09-16 01:00:37 · 29 answers · asked by Mexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Karma will come back and bit you in the butt. Don't take revenge. Let Karma takes it course. Trust me when I say that it will happen when you don't expect it too and they know what to do more than you do. This way you don't have to watch your back waiting for him to do pay backs to you either. The sweetest revenge is just to move on and find a better boyfriend who will treat you better.
God Bless
2006-09-16 01:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, although i don't think revenge is a very good idea, I'm not at the receiving
end so I'll give you a site that's really cool. You can send your ex a box of dead flowers or even dead fish anonymously for a minimal cost. I don't know where
you are from, so Im not sure if they will deliver. Maybe just get some good ideas off the site! Have Fun
2006-09-16 08:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, look at urself in the merrow & find all the good in you and compair that with his good and bad. Than remember what and how much good you saw in him before ya'll became an item. Revenge is a poison and in the end you will only harm yourself. anything negative in our lives is a lesson as is a possitive. Problems are to be solved and mastered. Than we move onto the next phaise of education and expreience. You were not born knowing what 2+2 is. but you mastered it. So just because one is not true to one's self, does'nt mean you have to be untrue to #1. You. Come on. smile and love you first
2006-09-16 08:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by jjaayy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something brutal and personal that will really sting and make him hate you. If he has a girlfriend now then try and seduce and sleep with her while hes with some other member of his family hanging out. Sleep with his best friend would be good as well. Again while hes also doing something with someone close to him. Look up on psychology for how to do this. Hmm... maybe get his credit card and pin number and have a million haha i stole your money! cards delivered to his door. Make him think you are now a total fukking psycho! Use your imagination. And remember... its gotta be personal or he will get over it fast!
2006-09-16 08:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, the best thing for you to do is not waste your time on this. No one is ever a winner in the revenge contest!! Why make yourself more miserable? If I were you, I would take a look at my decision making process in the men I choose to date and have a relationship with. You obviously have no standards. Look ahead and move on.......There are a lot of good people out there.
2006-09-16 08:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a total waste of time and energy, and that is the best way to lower yourself. What exactly do you get out of an act of revenge? Breaking up him with him was the best thing to do, now leave it at that. Find someone who will respect you for what you are.
2006-09-16 09:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand your sentiment. I found out the hard way too, that my bf had been getting intimate with one of the girls in our class (and she and i used to be close). So yeah, you might want to hit a weakness, some sort of insecurity that he has... If you want him to feel your anger then hit him where it would really sting the most. Good luck!
p.s. Revenge is a tricky thing, its only good while the anger and the pain lasts.
2006-09-16 08:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by natasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend like he was just a really bad dream, and move on with your life.
If you get revenge, you're letting him control you and that gives him the satisfaction of knowing you still have feelings for him..good or bad. If you move on, and pretend like nothing he did mattered...then he doesn't matter, and there's nothing that hurts more than that.
Sometimes the best revenge is to be happy and let it go. It makes them wonder if they meant anything to you at all.
2006-09-16 08:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do absolutely nothing. Revenge would be going down to his level. Don't give him the benefit of the doubt. Have no more to do with him and let him realise that he was not even important enough to let it bother you at all.
2006-09-16 08:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is moving on and doing well in life.
2006-09-16 08:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋