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How can I find out how my friend feels about me without making the situation too awkward? Mind you that I am very, and I mean very, shy when it comes to women. We are very good friends and have been for years now. I love hanging out with her and just talking to her. It makes my day just hearing her voice. I know her entire family because they are like family to me. I treat her sisters kind of like my sisters.
The girl is a very close friend who I know through family. She is three years younger than me. Is there anything I can do or say, without making the situation awkward, to see how she feels about me?
Recently I asked her to hang out with me. Just the two of us. We had fun, but I did notice that she was pretty quiet most of the night. I know I didn't help the situation by doing the same. Is there something wrong or am I just looking to deep into it. Any advice would be appreciated. Particularly from a girl or women.
2006-09-16 00:43:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she was quiet that day you asked her to hang out with you was because she might be feeling the same thing about you . I know how it is to be very shy and you will over come this one day but you need to just tell her how you feel and i bet she is shy also and feels the same about you also.
2006-09-16 00:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to be honest but not totally hang it all out...you could send her email cards for instance, there are lots of cards with the I Like You theme. You could also invite her by saying that you'd like to go on a date together, mentioning the word date and see what she says about it. Plus you could just say that you have feelings for her and you want to have her opinion about it because you don't want to lose her friendship...but is there a possibility that she could consider you more than a friend? Send her a Valentine's card asking her if she'd join you in a romantic dinner etc. There are lots of ways to go about it but do remember, you'll regret being this shy if she falls for another man and permanently leaves you behind...so suck your guts in and go for it!
2006-09-16 07:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to your situation, it depends on the girls that whether she is taking you as her brother and how seriously? does she fell comfortable with you only because of sis kind of relation. strat sharing with her your each and every thing and go more close to her like this, in between you should strat giving her hints abiut what you feel. tell her that you like a girl and she also knows her. then probably she ll ask you her features etc. then you can easily describe her own features but dont tell that its she only. when u ll be sure thatshe got a hint that you like her only then observe her behavior. if she will try to aviod you then never tell her that it was she but if she also has some feelings for you then she wont aviod you.
2006-09-16 07:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by dsjfehiw 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One question that immediately comes to my mind is... how old are you? If you're 15 and she's 12, the situation is VERY different from if you're 25 and she's 22.
Presuming you're both mature enough for a relationship, it sounds like you both really like each other but don't know how to proceed. She's probably waiting for you to make a move. One way to move forward is by just asking her how she feels about you.
If your ages are more like 15 and 12, then the story is completely different. You don't even want to go there...
2006-09-16 07:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit obsessing and ask her out again.
Take her someplace where you don't have to do too much "heavy talking".
Go to an aumusement park or the zoo. Then you can discuss the rides or the animals and further conversation will flow easily.
2006-09-16 07:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your getting there slowy but surely know what i mean maybe it takes time so don't rush it since you both sound shy. just do what your doing and step it up each time .
2006-09-16 07:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by terri e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋