My girlfriend is 21 years old and is in my native place (TN). I'm in Mumbai since last 3 years. We have been loving since last 5 years. She calls me every week and speaks to me freely. I have been asking for her photo. But she always refusing and don't say the reason also. She ever doesn't kiss me on phone. She doesn't give anything I want from her. But if I ask whether she loves me, she says 'yes'. I got nothing from her till now. Is that mean she tries to cheat me? I love her a lot. She says nothing about what she thinks about me, even if I ask. How can I understand her?
2006-09-16 00:13:26 · 8 answers · asked by gsp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was with her before four years. But I didn't ever touch her. I feel I cannot live without her. I have told her this too. She smils for that. I have given lots of letters and gifts. She accepts all but refuses to give me anything.
2006-09-16 00:42:57 · update #1
you should talk alittle more about what she likes or dislikes.dont harrass her with too much questions.let it be.
2006-09-16 00:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by lmvm63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well frm what u haeve said i think that u have never met each other and this thing happened through the net. To be truly in love with some 1 u must meet them,be in their presence. By just talking to her through fone doesnt mean that u r in love with the person...for crying out loud u havent even seen her face.....unless u meet a gal and spend quality time together i dont think there is any chance of u being in love
2006-09-16 07:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by kennyj_43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, she is playing games with you. How can you love someone who is not giving you anything in return? You need to find someone who is going to give something back to you. You can't think that you are fulfilled in this relationship, if she is not giving you what you need. Relationships are suppose to be rewarding at least emotionally. You are empty and seem to be doing all of the giving. Please tell me that you want more for your self than this? I say you need to stop calling her, and move on. 5 years is too long in an empty relationship. You can find someone who will love you and treat you much better than this.
Good luck and God Bless
2006-09-16 07:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't go for long distance relationships too much happens in a day.
2006-09-16 07:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by wisewomaninthewest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really so stupid to understand the basic fact that she is just playing with you ? She is the cat and you are the poor mouse..
2006-09-16 07:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mantra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, the ratio of men to women is 1:12, help yourself!
2006-09-16 07:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by theKenyan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the long distance relationship.
She sounds like she is wasting your time...
2006-09-16 07:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find another one..
2006-09-16 07:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋