Befor four years ago he was my boy friend.At that time I was happy.After some mounth I desieded to stop our reation b/c of some peoples.I did this befor 3 years but he try to his best inorder to change my thought but I did not.Now he is not aroud me and he lives out of our mother land.And I found him once by e-mail but is not volunter to talk with me.And he said "do not waste your time to write an electronics letter to me "but I love him. What shall I do?
Is that love???
2006-09-15 23:56:50 · 10 answers · asked by aselef 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he says you shouldn't waste your time writing him, that's exactly what he means. He's not interested in you, you should forget about him and move on.
2006-09-16 00:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a Love lost!!You were harsh enough ti terminate your relationship with him 4 yrs before and now started re thinking about starting it. But he also would have taken all these in his stride and would have found someone he loves. Thus your sudden moves to contact him would have become an irritation to him. He also probably is taking a psychological revenge for your deeds 4 yrs ago!!
2006-09-16 07:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We dont know what we have until its gone...You hurt this guy, played with his emotions and now he's had enough. Give him some time and then maybe in a few months, send an email and things may have cooled down, try being his friend before his lover.
2006-09-16 06:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is better for you to forget about him just as he has suggested. i feel you dont love him as you think you do. i feel you want him or miss him because you have not just found someone who is better than him. Maybe he is just a better person than the people you have gone out with so far that is why you want him back and not that you love him.
2006-09-16 07:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by LIFE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not waste any more time emailing him.
He has told you how he feels.
It takes two people to make a relationship and he isn't interested.
I know it huts but you must face it...
2006-09-16 07:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your playing with him rather than sitting down and speaking to him honestly. Try starting there....
2006-09-16 07:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes moved away.. you should move on aswel.. you need to get over this heartbreak and find your true love...
2006-09-16 07:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but you just got dumped find someone better he sounds like a prat anyway
2006-09-16 06:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by rdg0055 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about him... find someone else.
2006-09-16 06:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by A K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..that is love..a blind love..
2006-09-16 07:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by atokboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋