should i go out with a guy who can't get over his ex but is attracted to me? or should i stick with this guy who is a lousy boyfriend, but a nice guy. he's nice, but he hates making phone calls. and i'm not doing all the work. sometimes i feel like he really loves me and sometimes he acts like he just doesn't care. should i call the other guy?
i'll give you 5 seconds to answer or i'm callin' him.
2006-09-15 23:52:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yay! he called me. we're back to where we started. thanks for the suggestions, guys.
2006-09-16 18:55:13 · update #1
The guy that can't get over his ex girlfriend shouldn't even e an option for you. He just probably wants to use you to get over her. Don't let him, talk seriously with the guy you are currently seeing and tell him you want to go to dinner with him, if he shows you affection, just know that he is into you and that all he needs is time.
2006-09-16 00:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm too late u already called him why waist 5 pts if you were gonna do it anyways girl, stop and think,the new guy is not over that girl he wants to be with someone else to try and forget her and your boyfriend who don't know how to use the phone tell him I need u to call me or buddy astalaVista Baby.
2006-09-16 07:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by wisewomaninthewest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call the guy who is in love with you. The guy sometime behaves differently but it does not mean that he does not love you. You and the guy will be happy as you will reciprocate his love and feelings of love. When he comes to you encourge him to kiss you and even go in a separate enclosure for intercourse. He will be happy and will always remain attached with you. Good Luck.
2006-09-16 06:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first guy obbiously doesnt want you if he cant get over his ex.he wants her. sorry babe.
The second guy is just a normal guy! Most of them are the same. By boyfriend never rings me i always ring him. Most the times you can see that he really genrally cares for me and loves me. however other times he is a right bastard.
you just learn to get on with it. aslong as you know he loves you and he cares for you, the things will work out just fine,
xxx
2006-09-16 06:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello baby,
You will know before you decide in your heart, what you should do! You are actually asking yourself a question, and then giving yourself THAT answer! You need to over look your brain, and listen to your heart, its trying to tell you something hun!
Any guy who cant get over his x, needs time to fall in love with someone who can !
2006-09-16 07:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by bubba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to think about it too much, you know what the answer is. Just stay single until you meet Mr. Right. Most of the people we meet are not the ones for us.
2006-09-16 06:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by tadpoleslider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go for the lousy guy because i am quite sure that the one who is attracted to his ex does not love you.
2006-09-16 06:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by Aliyu J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch them both, you deserve better...The first guy will always go running back to ex and your bf will always be lousy! Men dont know what they have until its gone....
2006-09-16 06:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop making ultimatums both guys are bad for you work on your self then find new guys
Hint:"Guys Hate Talking on the phone" ITS BORING.....Hey what are doing NOTHING what are you doing....BORING.
Talk face to face
2006-09-16 07:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by christopherllongoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a third man who is better than either one of the two you've described.
2006-09-16 07:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋