2006-09-15 23:51:41 · 10 answers · asked by catweazle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What sort of touching?!! :-) It helps being in a crowded environment to initiate touching. That way you have an excuse to get close. Then if she back's away, you know she isn't interested. Always best to start touching in neutral areas such as the small of the back or elbow. Eg: When you ask a question like "hey would you like a drink?" (whilst standing by her, touch her on the elbow lightly briefly.) If she joins you at the bar to get the drink and it is crowded, you can stand close and put your hand on the small of her back to "protect" her from others pushing their way past.
Think Spanish or Portuguese! they always touch as a sign of affection when greeting, leaving and when something funny is said. Most importantly don't be too shy, because she'll get frustrated. She'll respond to your touches by moving closer or away. That way you know what she is comfortable with. Good luck.
2006-09-16 00:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Dominic B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk about sex, not crudely, but as a joke. Make any joke. She will be more open to touching when feeling happy and comfortable. Tell her how nice she's looking. She is hot after all. That's why you're after her. Tell her. Go for it.
2006-09-16 00:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to hold her hand 3/4 of the way into the first date, if she pulls back she may not be into you.
2006-09-15 23:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by James007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
offer your hand if they grab it then cool holding hands can lead to arm around sholder to then maybe first kiss then maybe other stuff but alway get the approval first this done with body language good BL smiles staring at you and geting closer bad BL always want to let go getting away from you sitting far away usally means your moving to fast or she not in to you.
2006-09-16 00:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by christopherllongoria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ryt...do da yawn and stretch move den rub her shoulder. If she leans on ur shoulder and kind of looks up u can kiss her. I rekon u can take it from dere.
2006-09-15 23:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by Acoustic_child 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take her to a scary movie and she should fly into ur arms if not just do the good old yawn and strech the arms
2006-09-16 00:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking 1st date, hand holding or gettin your fingers wet ?
2006-09-15 23:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha, just go for the old stretch-out-let-arm-glide-across-shoulders routine!
2006-09-15 23:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Drop your popcorn on her lap, and insist on helping her clean up.
2006-09-15 23:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have dance with her
2006-09-16 00:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋