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has anyone ever been cheated on, but you have made the relationship work after finding out your partner had cheated on you?

2006-09-15 23:43:16 · 9 answers · asked by I~Love~Baileys 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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yes. The trust needs to be re-built. You can forgive and it does not mean you will forget, but in time it can work. The way the marriage counselor puts it is:

think of the relationship as a tree, the branch where the cheating occurred is the cancerous branch, you cut that off and the tree or relationship keeps growing. someday you look down and you can still see, remember, the dead branch but you continue to grow....as does your relationship.

2006-09-15 23:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ness 4 · 1 0

there is consistently possible that the courting might want to artwork, yet even as one 1/2 of a pair steps out and starts off sampling human beings, there is in basic terms as vast possible that the courting might want to fail. Even after shifting on, someone who has been cheated on might want to nonetheless discover themselves stuck contained in the reminiscence of that individual's infidelity, and hastily everytime the guy is going out for espresso they are questioning, 'Yeah, who're they going to satisfy?' or some equivalent. extra oftentimes than not, a courting with dishonest all in favour of a lot of circumstances ends, both because the cheater is a repeat criminal or the cheated is unable to bypass previous the actual undeniable reality that they were given cheated on, and each and every walk outdoors by employing the cheater turns right into a secret assembly with a hidden lover.

2016-11-27 02:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by leake 3 · 0 0

I could not forgive a sexual fling. If it was a kiss, it would hurt, but any sexual contact is unforgivable to me and would mean no going back. I have been cheated on and didnt find out until I dumped him for another reason, but Im glad I did as it almost always happens again. good luck

2006-09-15 23:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Abigail 3 · 1 0

yes...but it didnt last for very much longer after that....but i know a girl who is still with her bf despites the fact that hes cheated on her more than 5 times. thats a little extreme and i guess shes only with him because she has noone else.
if its once, forgive and forget but if he does it a second time, than its time to say bye bye

2006-09-15 23:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by carcaterra 3 · 1 0

If you love him deeply, you will find the strength to forgive and move on. However, make sure he knows the pain you went through and not to take your forgiveness for granted or think that its ok for him to be unfaithful. So, how much do you love him?

2006-09-15 23:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Nemrac666 2 · 0 0

if you can forgive it will kinda work out. But the forgiveness is not the only part... there the trust issue that you must work on as well.

2006-09-15 23:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by A K 2 · 0 1

yes

2006-09-15 23:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0 0

yes

2006-09-15 23:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by Petar K 1 · 1 0

that only works if you can truly forgive and most women cant

2006-09-15 23:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by lost one 4 · 1 0

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