when i was young my mother told told me she did not want me and was going to have me given away she arranged for me to be adopted but decided to keep me, i had an awful childhood alot of abuse i was hit alot and thrown out of my mothers house, she would have me back and kick me out again. I grew up insecure, have got over alot of it, but sometimes i still i am still insecure and think people do not like me or care about me even when they do. I worry about rejection sometimes because of it and think people wont like me, i never felt good enough, need to get over these feeling and be more confidant in myself.
2006-09-15 21:49:29 · 11 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Forget about the past...be thankful that you were able to survive all of them and now you're big enough to have a life of your own... welcome friends along the way...think positive and count your blessings instead of thinking about your past....remember it's your present and future life which you need to work out best...be yourself, be confident, be proud...God loves you unconditionally and i do believe a bright and happy future awaits you...God Bless and Goodluck...
2006-09-15 22:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by chona a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It does sound like you need to develop a lot of self-confidence. I suggest that you look within yourself for it, and not at other people. That's because other people are unpredictable and may do more harm than good. I think it might be great if you set some reasonable goals for yourself, and work to reach them. Get a degree. Get that job. A nice car maybe? After you make yourself whole then maybe you should seek relationships with other people. When you feel someone doesn't care about you or like, you will have the strength to realize that it doesn't matter if they do or don't and that life will go on, because you are OKAY.
2006-09-16 04:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by ihaftaknow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you are an amazing woman to have grown up in such a way and still turned out a great amazing woman. I suggest you get into some therapy to help you let go of all you insecurities. You are amazing, you just need to learn it.
Thank you for sharing with us I know it's hard to do.
2006-09-16 04:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you had such a traumatic childhood. maybe you have someone to talk over things with? or perhaps you could try support organisations or counselling? I have had a good childhood but terrible adult life and this has affected me in a similar way, i have tried counselling but find the best way is to tak to friends and work my own way through it .good luck x
2006-09-16 04:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by Loobyloo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the same happened 2 me,just say bollocks 2 them. 1 day u will find some1 that loves u 4 being u.goodluck
2006-09-16 04:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by steve o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi
Some of what you said rings true for me too, though not as bad.. i feel for you. What really helped me was a course of pschotherapy. it really helped, and in 10 months i felt like a new person.. good luck : )
2006-09-16 04:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
donot try to make fools ur saying diffrent stories like 45 with 3 kids and so on in each better be honest
2006-09-16 04:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Sampath 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all just ignore american idol (obviously a total moron) i think you need to talk to someone and have some councelling you will be suprised how much it will help you, try it and see. good luck
2006-09-16 06:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should have kept her mouth shut...my aunt did that to her kids too...i hope you have a good friend to talk to...the Lord Jesus loves you and you can pray for help dear.
2006-09-16 04:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry lady
u know u need a psychotherapist
2006-09-16 06:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by juhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋