I have 3 children and two grandchildren living with me, my two oldest girls have left home, i don,t think a bloke would be intererested in me when he knows how many kids i have. I mean it might be alot to handle, what do you think, i am 45 been single now seven years, its not always easy to get out to meet people, i have been on a couple of internet dates but it was no good i did not really get along with them. Not enough chemistry. Anway i would like to meet someone i get lonely sometimes. Who would accept me with all my kids. I am doing a degree as well and i work. I just want to meet a nice bloke but its difficult.
2006-09-15 21:40:11 · 9 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Transform the negative into positive. You are saying that as it is a bad thing, do it as it is a good thing and you will be attractive to other people, feel proud of what you have and all the effort you have done to get where you are and also the degree you are trying to get with your own efforts, another thing to feel proud. Don't even think on hide truth or who you are, or what you have, but feel proud, that's what I think you need to change to make a difference. Come on, you have grandchildren, if you show up to the world like it is a bad thing, complicated, etc. who would like to be with you?, nobody right?, but if you are happy and proud with that (and there are reasons to be happy because you have a blessing that it sounds to me you are not giving the value it has) don't you think someone would be more interested on keep a conversation longer, and probably talk again tomorrow, and why not hang out again the next weekend, you are cool and fun to be with and your heart is nice, doesn't that look like something is starting?. But if you start with the wrong foot, saying "ok, be warned, I am a huge bag of problems here, so, it's up to you", that's like you seem to be introducing yourself. Dont' go to the other extreme of optimism, just be real, feel proud, be happy, stop the negative and I think that's what will make the difference.
2006-09-15 22:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first it sounds like u have to much on ur plate to begin with so u need some u time. And put ur feelings first before anyone else(family). then go to a book store find the section that most interets u and scout out for a decent looking guy in ur section of area and go gently bump into him and take a quick glance at his book and make a comment on it then start a converstation and ask him to sit and have a cup of coffee with u then dont linger to long and get up to leave but tell him how much u enjoy his company and ask for a number ... its that easy. this technique has worked for 3 of my friends thank u i made it all up my self
2006-09-16 04:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by colodge_25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bring it up in conversation. While talking mention how many kids you have and that they live with you and if he is any kind of gentlemen he will not have a problem with it...
2006-09-16 04:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
5 kids-Hey some guys just want the milk-not the cow and a small herd.
2006-09-16 04:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by super stud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know, a guy willing to hang around with you and five kids sounds like a keeper! now you just have to find him, a dilemma i agree, good luck!
2006-09-16 04:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by sweets 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18, currently seperated and have one child of my own. It is tough trying to meet someone who will love you for you and your baggage but as i try to say to people, i'm looking for someone for myself, not to father my children.
2006-09-16 04:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the grandkids need to moving out to their own place...there are good dating services that can help....compatability with horoscopes actually matters...find out which ones are good for you...I did that after divorce and I have an Aries man now and hes good for me..
2006-09-16 04:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hai u come on donot upset come on i am here
2006-09-16 04:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sampath 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh no... realli.... i feel that its quite hard.... dont u think so? i understand ur feelin dear..... but ur true love will come one day....
2006-09-16 05:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by sadgal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋