okay i met this gurl two days ago and asked her for her number... yester day i call her and ask her out to dinner and she said "yes" but she said that she has to see if she can go also... and she mentioned that shes going to be with her friends tommorow too... and she tells me to call her the next day in the afternoon... so i call her today in the afternoon and she says thats it is iffy.. she said she wil if her friends leave early... and she will call me to tell me wheather or not she can go.... SHE CALLS ME AT 9:45 and TELLS ME THAT SHE CANT GOOOO WTF?? and by that time i was already kickin it with my friends n e ways... so i wanna know what going on... she had two missed calls from and called me back and she had always kept her word i think... i wanna know if she's still interested and when should i call her next and is she interested in me?? should i mention this at all too her?? (i wanna throw this out too she is foriegn and only been here for 1 yr) so maybe shes different
2006-09-15 21:39:36 · 8 answers · asked by Shaboobalaboopie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try asking her out one or twice more. If she keeps blowing you off, back off and see if she pursues you. If not, move on.
2006-09-15 21:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. I've done those things and worse to guys that I fantasized about every night. Stood them up on dates...showed up an hour late without a phone call...the whole nine. I think I just wanted to know how into me they were AND I was terrible at time management. If you do what some men here have suggested and give up calling her forget it because, she will definitely forget about you. Also, I don't think you can not call this girl again even if you wanted to. You are intrigued by her lack of desperation and her "I don't know if I want to" attitude about dating you. If she called you three times a day and showed up early for your date, if you are like 98% of all guys, you would be taking her FOR GRANTED and NOT WORRIED about whether or not she's interested in you. One thing I love about you men. You are so easy to figure out.
2006-09-16 04:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me now, I'm old, well older then you
First thing, you'll lose all desirability the very moment you look desperate, that Is a fact!
Don't bring It up, let her If she does, then with out talking about her blowing you off, try again, act very much like "hey if It don't happen. ...no problem, that's cool, we can try some other time,
After all you've got a life, and friends, and other things to do, party to go to, and so on
If she "knows"(thinks) your out, having fun, and even "possibly" wanted, well then, your a hot guy, shes gonna totally be thinking about. She will totally start wondering about you If she even thinks girls want you
wine about it, bring it up like you had nothing else going on, Or act mad, forget it, then your some loser, who's desperate for a girl, who wants him?,... ewe.
and remember, when giving her that "I'm out having fun, don't worry bout me, don't act high and mighty, act as genuine as possible, or shell see right through you
2006-09-16 04:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by supervfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure she is interested this may be shy or doubt on u try calling for 2 more days i think it ppositive with this if not so better go to better one
2006-09-16 04:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sampath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound genuinely interested in her...you even try to find excuses for her...very cute. Don't give up just yet...maybe she is different...and has other worries you don't know anything about...yet....I agree with "sangwhich"> the first answerer to your question.
2006-09-16 04:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.maybe she is still thinking if she can trust you and have tested your patience...y dont u call her up again and ask her one more time to go out with you and this time,have her say yes or no...that simple..
2006-09-16 04:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by zhan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-16 04:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is interested but let her call u...dont wait by the phone...u have done ur part
2006-09-16 04:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by sangwhich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋