My girlfriend complains to me that she hurts when we have sex. She says I am too large. I feel weird...?

Answer 1

Don't feel weird, buy some lubricant!

Answer 2

hi there,

i have been observing this page on answers for some time and this same question has come up from different people a couple of times.

i think you ask this question and play people for your own stimulation.

Hurting a girl or woman with a penis that is to large is attributed to one thing and im sure you don't have the problem because i used to have this problem when i first started sleeping around at about 18 and i didn't know what i was doing so it was uncomfortable for the girls i was with,
Then i got together with a police woman who taught me how to restrain myself unfortunately we didn't stand the test of time but now it is not a problem and it is no big deal excuse the "pun".

because thats the way i was born and now i know how to make love to a girl. and it's the best..
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so get your hand off it and be real buddy.

that or learn
good luck

Answer 3

This is a common problem for many women.

It can be helped by several things.

Lots of forplay to make sure she is relaxed. It may be that if sex hurts she gets nervous before sex which will make the sex more painful. Maybe you can try doing other things together not just penetrative sex?

You can use lubricant such as ky jelly this can make it less painful.

Positions where she in control such as on top or sat on you may be more comfortable for her. Experiment in a relaxed way and i am sure it will become less painful for her.

If it is still not she can go to the doctor who will be able to help or refer her to someone who can.

I know men always get told that big is better but it can require a little bit of special technique as well.

Don't stress too much remember you are both meant to enjoy yourselves amd this does not always mean doing what ever they do in a porno movie!

Good luck.

Answer 4

Some blessings arn't always just that... Try not entering her all the way... The biggest thing to do here is to use lots and lots of lube.. KY-Jelly brand make a line called silk that is eccellent. The best pleasure a man could have is watching his partner orgasam.. Try alot of foreplay, Lots of oral sex and talk to her about what she likes and what she wants you to do to her.. Somtimes just rubbing the erect penis head directly on the clitoris will cause great stimulation.. Now here is another great game... Both of you sit or stand facing eachother and watch the other masturbate.. Now this is not a race.. You want to go slow so you will both see how the other is working.... Here is another thing to try.. Remember the lube, always remember the lube and add some more from time to time.. Now take your index finger and insert it into her vaginia.your palm shoud be facing up in the same direction of her pupic hair.. Be gentel, always be gentel down there. Now take that finger and insert it only an inch or two and brgin to massage the back of her pubic bone.. You will feel a sponge like substance here... Now use your other lubed fingers of the other hand to massage her clit (softly) unless she likes it a bit harder... Now, do not be afraid to use that toung.. gentky lisk and suck her clit, all while using that finger.. Don't worry, the lube has a sweet taste and is non toxic..If she says she feels like she is going to pee whil doing this, try to get her to relax. She is not going to pee. She is going to have a female ejaculation. It rarley happens on the first try but with practice I am sure you will make it happen some day.. Again, tell her to practice on her own or both get involved.. You finger, she rubs clit.. Bring toys into the bedroom, and don't be afraid of her but.. If she is not into that just "Accidently lightly lick toch or rub it from time to time, sand she will come around.. Now maybe you will never *** screw her but when I rub my wifes anus while I do her doggie style, she screams and squirts all over the place.... Just take care of her dude. put the tip in for a while, work slowly.. She will *** around.. have fun and use protection,,

Answer 5

Don't feel weird. Part of you is smiling inside, right? I have the same thing happen to me with my gfs.

Take lots of time in foreplay, use lube if you must. Take it slow, particularly initial penetration. Don't initially penetrate with one stroke, use gentle small strokes; insert the head, and a small stroke until you feel skin starting to grab [dryness.] then withdraw a little bit and pause. With each successive stroke you'll be able to go deeper until you're all the way in.

Watch doggy style. You can hit stuff that hurts. Also when she's on top, be very careful how you move.

Don't feel weird. Feel blessed. Just work a little bit to find out how best to please her.

Answer 6

The woman's vagina is made for handling the birth of a baby, which is bigger than any man can be. Perhaps your problem is not that you are too large but that you start having sex when she is not quite ready for it, and you are not using enough lubricant with your condom.

One lady taught me how to make her ready by giving me lots of K-Y Gel on my right hand and showing me how to masturbate her external genitalia with my open hand. The slipping and sliding of well-lubricated woman's p*ssy lips on the hand of a man feels pretty good for both the guy and the lady. And it never took long for my lady to get ready. She was the one who knew when she was ready. And she was the one who always motioned to me to get on top of her and finish her off like a man.

Needless to say, our sex was great every time because our liberated foreplay made us both good and ready.

Too much shame and inhibition during foreplay is what leads to difficulties with sex later on.

Answer 7

Maybe you should try stimulating her down there a little bit first before you start going at it. Or you can try some oils or lubricants. It will help it to slide in a little bit easier. Just go slowly, it will get easier. When my husband and I first started having sex, I used to tear down there due to his size. So we started trying all of the things that I have suggested and it really helped alot.

Answer 8

If this is a genuine question, I'm gonna respond, if not, get a life. It might not necessarily be that you're too big, if she is having pain during sex it could be something else entirely. She could have ovarian cysts or something physical thats causing the pain. Perhaps she should go see her doctor to see.

Answer 9

Don't feel weird ! Trust me if she is complaining about sex already this is only the beginning, you need to dump the b*tch and find yourself another girlfriend !

Answer 10

You are bullshitting. A woman can give birth to a baby. Your diameter cannot be bigger than an baby's head and shoulder. You have to go to a sex therapist and learn something. Truely, you dont know how to do it properly. BE GENTLE. Making love is a fine art ie not banging.

Answer 11

I think ur not engaging her correctly.

If u too large too girls will not find it as a problem if they are involved seriouly.

So better try to involve her in sex.
Try to reduce size if possible