Given that i am in a middle of a divorce, i dun really expect any of my relationship right now to go anyway really. I'm seeing a guy 10 years my junior, which probably makes this arrangment a little more complicated. he's 22 and I'm 32. He's not looking into having a commited r/s either, given that he just got out of a r/s, he wanted to marry her but she kinda screwed him over.
i really don't know what he's thinking sometimes. Some days he'll text me alot and wanna spend time, some days he seems so aloof. I'm in no position to demand his time and i know that lots of other girls are into him as well, younger girls in fact. Shld i juz break tis whole arrangement off? I do like him alot and care alot of him...i'm not sure as a guy or as a brother (u know e difference yeah?) I dont know if he's into me. Or juz wanna keep me at the side.
we've both just started school. he's 1st degree & my 2nd. so we're kinda in the same place at the moment, but i have kids, 2 of them.
2006-09-15 21:26:38 · 6 answers · asked by ikusburples 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur gonna go through a lot of different relationships before u actually fall in love again...make the most of what u have now cause u never know what tomorrow brings...be that hot older woman having that hot young bf...u never know...maybe next week u will be the hot younger women with the older man...take each day as it comes...dont get too involved...especially after a divorce
2006-09-15 21:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by sangwhich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already had a bad relationship going on (divorce), give yourself some cooling time. Focus on your studies and the up bringing of your 2 kids. The present boy, you describe, can forget about it if in this sort of manner. So, you will not give headache for yourself on this relationship. By the way, you still have time for a relationship, age at 32 is consider just right (young).
2006-09-16 10:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is decide for yourself what you want in the relationship.
How would you truly feel if the guy wanted to get into a serious with you?
How would you feel if he decided that he was going to see another gal for a "serious" relationship?
Being on the rebound makes the decision even tougher, but only you know how long you are willing to wait to see the answers to these questions.
2006-09-16 04:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by burnt_crispy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you din really like him at this moment but coz you are in the process of a divorced and he happened to be there, so you think that you liked him.
You need to cool down and think it carefully if you really like him and were your relationship work out in future. The next thing is that is he willing to accept the fact your are a divorcee. Don't forget we are in an Asian society and most of us look at divorcee in a different manner.
So if you are able to sort all this out, I think the answer is there for you to explore.
2006-09-16 07:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NSA
2006-09-16 04:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
32 22 please
2006-09-16 04:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by c p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋