Why is it so hard to find a good guy and where do I need to look to get one?

Question

I've been in my fair share of relationships, but it seems like I ALWAYS choose the wrong guy to be with. I like a guy who is funny, mysterious and speaks his mind. I always end up with dead beat losers who don't even have 1 job. I now work 2 jobs, so I don't have time for a boyfriend, but I get lonely. Where do I find a nice gentleman?

I'm most compatable with aries. I was in a year and a half relationship with one, he broke my heart. I'm older now and I want to be in a good, strong relationship. They have to love animals for one and that they can take a joke. I don't know. I want a nice guy, but not a boring one.

Answer 1

Mother Nature doesn't help us out much, here, because of this "chemical attraction" thing, that both sexes are susceptible to. Then, after we fall even a little for this good--looking and interesting personality, we find out that they might be very dysfunctional in life.

Maybe seek out a possible date at where you work. At least you'll know the guy has a job. Supermarkets are also good. If the guy shops for food, he probably can at least cook. Churches for the religious, dog--walking parks and lanes for the animal lovers.

Be open to new avenues. You might be limiting yourself by looking for a particular guy, who might not be good for you.

Good luck.

Answer 2

I have a job and feel like I'm a decent guy that knows how to treat a woman in a relationship. I hang out at work, museums, salsa clubs, airports cuz I travel alot, grocery store, book store, Best Buy to get my $10 CDs, the gas station cuz I drive a lot, nice restaurants, and online. I think it's like they say, don't look just do what you do and the right person will come along eventually. I thought I had the right girl once, but we had the same thing in common, we both were in love with her and put her first. Life is funny sometimes.

Answer 3

i am a nice guy and am loyal, honest and have a good job. i have been down the same road u have my whole life. i can never find a woman that wants to build a life.
they just want to spend money and sit on thier butts and lie and cheat. the last one wouldn't even pay any attention to her own kids it was so sad. i stayed with her because me and the kids got so attatched. it has been a year and i still worry about her kids.
u would have time for a bf if u had someone to meet u half way,
be equally responsible.
i keep telling myself its better to be alone, but its the loneliness that can be overwhelming.
email me and we can talk, i realize there is a small chance that we would be compatible, but u never know. if nothing else i never have enough friends.

Answer 4

compatability really counts Do you know which signs you are compatable with astroligically? I was very picky after my first marriege failed with a boring man...I was on Udate and I said no smokers, no furry animals Must know how to communicate and must be Aries , Scorpio, Pisces or Cancer. I know which ones work with me and it worked...Hundreds of men wrote me. I only met certain ones...im now married to a great guy who really pays attention...ive heard libraries can work too but make sure they will be compatable with you...theres a horoscope section here and good luck dear and with a husband only one job is needed cuz he can help you out..

Answer 5

Don,t bove with the loser just steer clear of them, i have always been with losers as well because i did not think enough of myself but now i want a decant bloke who works and is caring and i will not settle for less. Carn,t change them idiots. Ask yourself what you go with that sort for, probably because of self worth you are a hardworking girl who deserves better, a better future with someone, go for someone better, never settle for less. look at all your good qualities and don,t concentrate on the negative in yourself and speak nice things to yourself and ignore those loser they don,t deserve you.

Answer 6

Don't worry about finding Mr. Right, just look for Mr. Right Now. Date often, and plenty of men. I find that when I don't find what I am looking for in one guy, I find it in several guys, all at the same time.
Oh, and get a big dog. Mine is like a man magnet. I put on a skirt, and take him for a walk and boom! another guy to contribute to my plan of conquering this country.

Answer 7

Look in the right place. Bars and clubs are not the place to find one; not impossible but unlikely. Try library, church, social clubs, workplaces (you can be sure they have a job!). The hardest part is to define what is a good guy.

Answer 8

You could pay me to be there for you when you are lonely. Anyway usually us nice ones are to shy or to busy doing something in our worlds to be found. Could always try church? Sorry not much help on this one.

Answer 9

You only get what you put out believe it or not. In the Bible it states that a man finds his wife not a wife finds her husband . Try to look deeper into what you are looking for in a mate. Sometimes (no often) he's been right there in your face for the longest you just chose not to like him because of what???????????? have you ever thought about GROWING in love with someone rather than FALLING in love with someone? think about the key words to grow means to bloom to fall means die out eventually. Get yourself more datable and he will find you!

Answer 10

First of all how old are you? Then do you know the difference between a shower curtain and ,,,,,NNo no Get wormer stuff by Hiertse at grsy str and stop. Ok Look up,,,, Now look to your Right and smile not too big just a little smile , ?/?

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