How would you feel if your partner thinks it is ok to go out with another person (of the opposite sex) on a one on one dinner date claiming they are a friend and there is no romantic or sexual interest? Would you agree to this and allow them to go?
2006-09-15 21:20:12 · 14 answers · asked by AussiePete 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it's really only a friend then there is no reason of you not to be there with them..Besides she is your girlfriend..You should go out all together..I think it would be better and safer!! :p
2006-09-15 21:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Elli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, is there any trust in your relationship? If you trust your significant other, you'll let them go. They say that there's no romantic or sexual interest...that should be enough. There's no need to be insecure. Besides, if they're going to run off on you for someone else, better you find out now than later on.
Of course, if you have reason to believe that there is some romantic or sexual interest between your partner and the other person, then a discussion needs to happen.
In the end, though, don't think of it as "allowing" them to go out with someone - you're not their jailer. If you think of yourself that way, you'll inevitably find yourself single again.
2006-09-16 04:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LQQK, Aussie, I'm 40, now listen to me, right now while your reading this quick sentence, look into your self deep, and answer your self on this now, you got that little feeling didn't you?, you feel like this is total bullsh!t, and It hurts,... But for some reason, you think your not allowed to feel this way,... Or It's not correct to show that you feel this way about this.
STOP ALL THE BULL SH!TING AROUND, STAND UP, PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN, and realize this my friend,
YOU FEEL LIKE THIS FOR A REASON, DON'T YOU? WELL GUESS WHAT...YOU WHERE RIGHTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!
Otherwise you would have been invited, after-all we are just friends having fun, OK? then WHY are you not there?, WHY.. are you no fun? No. how about, "They" wouldn't be able to relax, enjoy and explore each other,( even If nether of them said it to each other) tell me I'm wrong, tell me I'm wrong, tell me I'm wrong!
2006-09-16 04:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by supervfive 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would use the word allow, sound controlling and it may push her away...But i dont agree she should, unless it work related go to dinner with some guy...Go to where she meeting him for dinner, and join them....
2006-09-16 04:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you trust your partner. If you trust your partner implicitly then you wouldn't have a problem.
I on the other hand would be asking myself why wasn't I invited?
I trust my partner implicitly but do get on well with his friends so I would want to know why I wasn't asked.
2006-09-16 04:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lorraine R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask to meet this so called "friend" and then make a decision from there. He could just be a friend dont jump to conclusions.
2006-09-16 04:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by danielle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the person was there friend before me, then yes. If not then no I don't think that is appropriate.
2006-09-16 04:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one on one date...there must be something going on...u should ask your partner to tell u the truth
2006-09-16 04:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by Misz Jaymee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if she would allow you to do the same.
2006-09-16 04:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust is everything....if u dont trust them to be with the oppposite sex u shouldnt be with them
2006-09-16 04:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by sangwhich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋