I found out from a mutual friend that my boyfriend still has feelings for his ex. I guess he is still friends w/her..(she lives 2 hours away) and they talk on the phone. GUYS...is it possible to have feelings for two girls at once? Have you ever still has feelings for your ex but found a new love? can you be in love w/two people at once? will it ever work out between us?
2006-09-15 21:19:45 · 14 answers · asked by Alexandra G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Was his previous girlfriend hot? If so , have you thoght of a treesome?
2006-09-15 21:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have had feelings for an ex before, but had a new love. I really think it shows that the guy is capable of loving. You can love two people at once, but "in love" is where the problem is. If he is still "in love" with her, you have a few questions you must ask yourself. First, how long ago did they split? If it's been a short time ago, then you probably are just a rebound. They rarely work out. I it has been a while since they split, then the guy has some serious issues. Get as far away from him as you can. Also, why hasn't your boyfriend been honest about this? Why did you have to find out from a mutual friend? I don't think it'll work out for you, save yourself some time and hurt feelings. You'll find better.
2006-09-15 21:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by ANTHONY A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have had feelings for two women at once. It can work out for you if you stay with him and the two of you get really comfortable with each other. If you act jealous, it would undermine that. I'd actually talk to him about it if I were you. Not with anger, but more with the idea of understanding it. If you act maturely on this front, he'll be more likely to want to stay with you.
2006-09-15 21:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't get too emotionally involved here.. He seemes the type that always needs a girlfriend. Then stores one on the backburner incase he looses another.. Beleive me, you are better off without him.. Find a guy who is into you.. one that is not jealous and dosen't lie.. Watch the drinkers and druggies also.. Now here is the guy secret I am giving away.. It is the BIG ONE and the only reason I am telling it is because I have a daughter and I do not want to see her get hurt like so many of her female counterparts.....GUYS ARE INTERESTED IN GETTIN LAID, THEY ARE INTERESTED IN SEX ONLY, PUSSY, BOOBS AND BUTS. 24/7 THAT IS ALL THEY THINK ABOUT FROM THE AGE OF 13-25.. NOW IAM NOT SAYING GIRLS ARE SAINTS, BUT I KNOW YOU NEED US ON SOMEWHAT MORE OF AN EMOTIONAL LEVEL. WELL WE MAY TRY AT TIMES BUT WE REALLY JUST WANT YOUR PANTS OFF. MY SUGGESTION IS TO DATE AS MUCH AS YOU WANT, BUT DO NOT GET ATTACHED... HE WILL BANG YOUR BEST FRIEND IN A HEART BEAT...NOW AS WE AGE, WE DO SETTLE DOWN A BIT. i FINALLY LET THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMEN NAB ME BACK IN 95, WE MARRIED IN 96 AND HAVE TWO BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN, BUT I STILL THINK OF BANGING HER AND A THOUSAND OTHER GIRLS ALL DAY..P.S. i HAVE NEVER CHEATED,.,
2006-09-15 21:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is definitely possible and he should quit contacting her...it is esp possible with Pisces and firesigns..talk to him about this...if he doesnt stop calling her I would say forget it cuz you dont want that. After 18 mos he should be buying you a diamond too.
2006-09-15 21:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice i would give to you is to dumb him!!
There is no way he can have feeling for two girls at once.
2006-09-15 21:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude who needs all this greif....Ugh....he is still hung up on his ex lady!....yha someone can like 2 people at once and it's called cheating to some people....Keep the past in the past and move forward....
2006-09-15 21:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by OR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO its wrong......
Actually if u have feelings for ur EX then...there is always a FEAR tht this relationship could BREAK UP.
2006-09-15 21:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by M u Z z I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it happens and I suggest u dont involve yourself in a dual relationship. Your bf should know in the end who is the one girl and you will end up realizing if he's worth it or not.
2006-09-15 21:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by VT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend needs to let her go, she is his ex for a reason so don't accept that..if he won't let her go you let him go....good luck..don't be a fool...
2006-09-15 21:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋