i have never had a boyfreind and all of my freinds have and when i ask them if there is something wrong with the way i look they say i look fine and sometimes are surprised to hear that i have never had a boyfreind a few of my freinds are about 160 pounds and are average looking and they get boyfreinds all the time and i just cant figure out why i cant get one.what should i do to get more boys to notice me?
2006-09-15 20:46:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boyfriend is not like any toy or commodity , think twice before taking any steps, once you will get anyone then you will come to know the real stress behind keeping a boyfriend. My sincere advice to you, if you dont have do not run behind to get one.Let someone to approach.Wait for your time.
2006-09-15 20:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but let me tell you about my wife.
My wife didn't have a boyfriend in High School and she wondered why. Instead of thinking something was wrong she kept involved with school functions. She graduated from High School and had two total dates by then. No boy friend.
On to College. Four years dated for 3 months one person went out maybe dozen times. No real boyfriends. Graducated college.
Worked. Dated maybe two boyfriends of the next 6 years. Nothing that lasted more then a couples of months. She had saved alot of money had nice care and was living on her own. She told me she thought something was wrong every once in awhile but she kept going. Durning this time she and I met and became friends. She would once in awhile talk to me about it as I would with her. We became best friends but nothing but friends she did her thing I did mine.
I guess about 3 years of being best friends I knew I had to be with her. We had never dated we just met when our path crossed or talked on the phone. But I needed to see her more and wanted to see her more. Well one day we met and I told her that I loved her and wanted to be with her every day. She smiled. We have been with each other ever since that day. 25 years last month.
Dont be in a rush. You will find that someone.
2006-09-16 04:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooo. a lot of guys r intimidated by gorgeous women. The problem is not you, its them. I'm tellin u this now, there will b at least 1 guy that will have the balls to confront u. That guy has confidence. He will make sure both of u have a fun time wherever and whenever.
2006-09-16 03:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the always single , cant get a guy, no one notices me , club. Sorry I cant figure it out ei ther , you sound just like me.
I had a bf once for like 3 weeks but i think he was just desperate and woud have asked out the next girl who walked passed him so I dont really count that lol. Sorry I cant help.
Email me if you want though =)
2006-09-16 03:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always believe that there's surely someone for you somewhere... well.. sometimes if you look good, guys may think that you are already taken or they are not good enough for you. i wouldn't suggest that you do a weird hairstyle or thick weird make up.. perhaps.. when u go out and u see a goodlooking guy, keep smiling even while talking to your friends.. he may notice your killer smile. or if they happen to look in your direction, look at him and smile a little.. you can also ask your friends how they actually attarted their boyfriends.. yup
2006-09-16 04:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile,dress sexy,be sexy,get a great body by joining a gym-then carry a big stick to beat the boys off.
2006-09-16 03:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by super stud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl first off all you don't tell us how old are you! Second stop looking like that for a bf. Guys run away from chicks with that look on their faces. it will come to you as it came to all of us!
2006-09-16 03:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and if it happens then it does. Wanting it to happen or thinking it should happen doesn't do anything but worry you. No you are not doing anything wrong. When you least expect it the boy will show himself if he hasn't been looking already.
2006-09-16 03:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and enjoy your life when the time is right it will happen or you could try some online dating.
2006-09-16 03:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by dgrainger77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey just be yourself. There is someone for everyone. Remember all good things come to those who wait.
2006-09-16 03:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by Byron B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋