i know this girl who i liked along time ago, she has a boyfriend now but she found out that i like her while she is going out with a guy, she calls me alot wanting to get to know me, what bothers me is that she has a boyfriend but she is making me like her when i dont want to, what to do...?
2006-09-15 20:44:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a bad place for you to be. You need to distance yourself from her. She has a boyfriend and you have feelings for her. If and when they break up, you can start to come around again and let what happens happen. Good luck
2006-09-15 21:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only human and may feel flattered by her attentions. That's fine but as for what to do...? I would think long about NOT getting involved with this person. What happens if you and she become a couple and she finds out another guy likes her. Does she start calling him behind YOUR back like she is doing to her current man? I don't think a person like this can be trusted. Be careful.
2006-09-16 03:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a bit of a sl*t to be honest and if she is doing it to this other guy when she ain't broken up with him yet then she will do the same to you if you ever get together. If you wanna get to know her then go for it but she sounds like trouble so i would find someone else who isn't a b*tch. If you actually want her to leave you alone b/c you don't want to like her then tell her you're gay. She'll back off then won't she!
2006-09-16 04:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing in two sides now.....let's say she will break up with her boyfriend for you...do you have the confidence that after that....she would not do the same thing to you?
It's better to let her be..........i'm pretty sure...it's not the only girl around.
2006-09-16 03:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by bluesad_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I'm a guy and my motto has been that if they leave some one for me whats going to keep them from leaving me for someone else, plus its not cool to mess with some one Else's girl would you like it , i wouldn't .Just trying to be straight up man, have a nice day.
2006-09-16 04:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she is happy with her current boyfriend. If she says yes then back off and stop taking her calls, if she says no then tell her you want a shot at it.
2006-09-16 03:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really like the idea of you trying to be more than friends with a girl who is already attached. well you could be friends with her. but since you ae attracted to her, i think this would not be possible. if you really want to be with her, let her finish her relationship with the other guy first. don't be involved in a love triangle.
2006-09-16 03:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it platonic - no flirting. If she flirts with you, don't respond. She has a boyfriend. If she comes after you while seeing him she will probably do the same to you if you two ever developed a relationship. If she breaks up with him, then slowly move forward with her.
2006-09-16 03:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by testrun66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut ties with her, or tell her to break ties with her boyfriend. You don't want to be the other man, so let her know. or if your not interested her at all in her anymore just tell her so.
2006-09-16 03:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's this friendly with you when she is dating someone else maybe you should worry that she will act the same to some other guy if you two hooked up, just a thought.
2006-09-16 03:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by sweets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋