One of my best friends is going out with my ex-boyfriend. She even helped me get over him when he broke up with me. Am i wrong, or is that against the code of friendship? What should I do?
2006-09-15 20:31:29 · 14 answers · asked by L16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and i still have feelings for him. She knows that.
2006-09-15 20:39:06 · update #1
Sure, why not...he is your EX !!! He is free to date whomever he wants and if its your friend...then so be it. It is also ok for you to date his friends.
2006-09-15 20:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by daddydoggie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is your best friend, she should know better and have some respect for you enough to not to go out with your ex. I wonder how she will feel if she is in your position? Do you personally feel OK about her going out with him? If you don't, you should really tell her how you feel. A guy shouldn't come between good friendship!
2006-09-15 20:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by sunflower222 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's not a matter of it being okay with you or not, there's nothing you can do about it anyways because if you do, you will be meddling into another couple's private affairs. He is already your ex. The concern should be focused on who you refer to as one of your "best friends", she knows the circumstances of your break up and as your best friend, she should have the decency to decline your ex-bf's invitation if you are still hurting until now and she's aware of it. On a different light, if you are over it and if you are now presently involved with somebody else and is happy with the way things are with your life, then it should be okay.
2006-09-15 20:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by marisu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you're not using him right now are you?
perhaps you two weren't the right couple and they are.. do you really want to risk your friendship over a fight as silly as "i use to date him"? would you get mad if she used the same spoon that you did last week?
dont be jealous that they might be able to make it work.. be happy that they're happy together. happiness is a hard thing to find in today's world..
go out and find yourself a new guy and stop worrying about your ex's.
2006-09-15 20:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by .jess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's OK as your not with him! How ever it will put a strain on your friendship with her! You certainly don't want to hang out with both of them. It would be unfair of her to expect you to. She has to make her own choices as you must! If that's her choice, wish her the best and move on with your life!
2006-09-15 20:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so back stapping sryy sweety but that is no friend to you,she went passed the line of being ur friend to being the ex just like the boyfriend.
2006-09-15 20:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally against the code of friendship, you should ditch them both and count yourself lucky to be rid of the dead weight!
2006-09-15 21:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by sweets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how u feel about it....but personally i dont think ur friends should date ur ex...theres plenty of fish in the sea...tell her how u feel...it cant hurt...just get it out there so she knows...then u will know if shes a true friend or not
2006-09-15 20:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by sangwhich 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's totally up to you, how do you feel about her going out with your ex???????? Does it upset you or are you alright about it??????????? Only you know what the answer is.
2006-09-15 20:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by Linda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your best friend is two faced and a B***h.... cut all ties with her... friends should never date ex bfs... its just not right..
2006-09-15 23:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋