I started goin to a new school this year and i love it well the 1st day i noticed this guy and i was attracted to him alot by looks but now almost 2 months into school i love his personility and everythang about him i wouldn't change one thang. we've been almost been dating a week and ii've already felt thangs for him it took 7 months for me to feel my last. Do you think it's stupid us both fallin this hard for each other??? could y'all please talk i need help
2006-09-15 19:53:31 · 22 answers · asked by rebel_barrelracer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good question, in rare cases it is highly possible, in if you are a participant in such a case, never let that person go because those are the sparks that never die.
2006-09-15 19:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...well, I don't really believe in love at first sight, I think it mostly amounts to infatuation. And I would say "true love" after a week is unlikely, also, but, it sounds like you really like each other, so go for it. Just remember not to move TOO fast, this can cause problems later. And Congratulations!
Oh, and what's with "thang"? Are you trying to "type" southern? It's kinda weird.
2006-09-15 20:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by wendy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's stupid about falling hard for someone? It might just be risky on both your parts. Have you ever heard of "putting all your happiness eggs in one basket"? If you put everything into this one relationship and it turns out it's not what you thought it was (say, he cheats on you, leaves you for someone else, falls out of love), you're going to be hurt a lot more than if you just take the relationship slowly and get a feel for what's actually going on. So don't take it too seriously.
Although to answer the actual question you asked, no, I don't believe in love at first sight. How can you fall in love with someone you just looked at?
2006-09-15 19:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Dumblydore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear You may call it love but i may call it as an attraction in that age and that moment, looks, physic is extremely different than caring, understandability and togetherness, thats reason u might have seen arround that new love doesnt last longer almost in many cases
2006-09-15 21:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do strongly believes in love at first sight .See this reflects your Karma / Destiny and your star signs also plays a good role . Like Air signs will attract towards air and fire signs
water sign will attract towards water and earth sign . Any way it is just natural nothing special
2006-09-15 20:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not love at first sight. i took you 2 months before you could say you love his personality, right? it seems you are very much in love with this guy. nothing wrong with that. just make sure that he becomes an inspiration for you to finish school. not a reason for you to stop.
2006-09-15 19:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,that all depends...were you attracted to him immediately or was it some time on down in the school year?Did you say right then that you were gonna be with him or did you waite a few weeks or months then say it to yourself?
2006-09-15 20:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by Katilyn s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight....nahhhhh, Lust at first sight......O'YEAH! As far as your sudden onset of romance....it's normal. Wait and see if you still feel that way after you all get to know one another better, if you do then you know it's the real thing....enjoy it.
2006-09-15 20:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Progress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it can happen - it happened to me. She just walked into my life her first day of work, smiled brightly, and I was immediately smitten. And the relationship has only gotten better.
2006-09-15 19:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by testrun66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not stupid.Though, remember if you rush things, you may make wrong decisions and something that might have been so good may end up being very painful. All the best.
2006-09-15 19:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋