hi ppl,
im an 18yr. old and i have got a small problem. there is this guy in my class who always goes on looking at me and staring me but never comes 2 talk. whenever i catch him looking at me he immediately looks the other way. wat exactly does he wants?? im confused as he has never even tried to strike a conversation wid me.. wat does this mean?? wat should i do to make him talk 2 me. coz i wont mind being his friend..
p.s. he is not a shy kind of guy and is vry much straight forward, intelligent n smart.. so i dont think he is shy abt coming n talkin 2 me..)
plzz help guys...
2006-09-15 19:30:15 · 10 answers · asked by ira 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he may just be impressed by you for some reason. it's ok to be flattered. that or he's gay and can't stop thinking about you. But my guess is that there's something about you that he finds interesting so he just ends up looking in your direction - then is embarassed because he realizes he keeps doing it.
2006-09-15 19:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like this guy likes you, but he doesn't have the guts to talk to you. You say he's not shy and straight forward, but he may be shy about approaching you. If you like the guy, say hi to him, and see how he responds. You can't do all the work for him. He may be lacking confidence when talkin' to girls.
2006-09-15 19:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Clark Kent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make the first move. Walk towards him like you are going to go by him and then do an abrupt 90 degree turn and stand beside him. Introduce yourself. See what happens. He is probably amazed at your beauty and finds it hard to look away....that is when you catch him.
Go ahead and 'break the ice.' Let me know how you make out.
2006-09-15 19:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i faced the same problem some time ago.there was a guy who always fought with me but always stared at me and i later found out that he had a crush on me.i suggest that the best way is to try and sort out the things between you two.speak to him in a clear way that what he wants and what is his problem.if he does not answer clearly then ask one of your or his friends for help.tell them to talk to him and try to know what is wrong with him and they can later tell you what he said
2006-09-15 19:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by deeksha thakur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if you are really hot, he may just be scared to talk to you. I had this same problem too. It seems like he wants.... you!! He just does not know how to start talking to you. What helped me was I asked her a question about the class, and we went from there.
2006-09-15 19:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by burnsielaxplayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..the odds are that he likes u or he's a pervert..depends on wha t u think..why not u try to talk to him instead(if ur close to him).or else,go with a fren a confront him and ask him out loud (just to embarrass him)..
all the best
2006-09-15 20:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by alexgnot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put 2 and 2 together. If he is outgoing, but doesn't want to talk to you, he's NOT INTERESTED. You must be really fu(king ugly.
2006-09-15 19:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by Take That 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety guys are funny whin it comes to a girl thay like it like thay are lost for word that woud come ezzy at othere times...so id say he relly likes you jusst dont no how to say it.....
2006-09-15 19:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by destiny7152003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu really can just go up to him and ask..."So are you starring at me or the person behind me?"
2006-09-15 19:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by FoodLOVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you?
2006-09-15 19:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by senatorjohnmccain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋