there's a guy i've been dating for a couple of days now.. but it wasnt until after i got together with him that all my friends told me he "hops from girl to girl" and later that day, i found out that he broke up with another girl the same morning he asked me out.. i was shocked.. and my friends knew him way longer than i have because i only met him about a month ago.. they say he's gone out with over 35 girls including me and we're ONLY 14!!.. i dont have him for any of my classes in school, not even lunch.. and i dont know if he could be messing with other girls behind my back.. and i DO like this guy.. and i want a serious, longlasting, meaningful relationships nowadays.. but people say he isnt like that.. what do i do??
2006-09-15 19:00:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be listening to my friends,I know hes irresistable but since you want a longer relationship seems hes not the type.
2006-09-15 19:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by alwayssmiling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not trust him to be anything more than what he has been. He will not change for you or anyone else. I am sure that he is hot and attractive. This is why he can have so many women. He may even be resentful of women or may dislike them. For some reason he is using thim like a kleenex and discarding them at will. Ask yourself why an intelligent person like you would expect a man whore to be a manogamous loyal man overnight. This is not the guy for you or any other woman.
2006-09-16 02:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some guys do hop from one girl to another... for reasons like trying to be a casanova, or some is seriously looking for the ONE that they really want. And for your case, if you seriously find it difficult to trust this guy, just stop seeing him and don't let the relationship to progress any further. Never thought you can make someone change, unless he himself is the one that really want to change to be a better person for himself and you. You are still young, you'll find a person that is really into you someday.
2006-09-16 02:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rebornie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take the risk. Leave him. You say that you do like this guy but u can forget him as you only got into this relationship a few days ago. I am sure u can find a better guy.
2006-09-16 02:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief. Your that young and have that many problems?
Look.
Do yourself a favor.
Cut all your friends off, including the serial dater boyfriend you have and start fresh with people who have common sense and one's you can trust.
You are surrounded by gossip mongers and jealous friends.
Cut them off and find new friends. They are going to get you into a lot of heat.
Good luck
2006-09-16 02:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby doll, you are so young. Have fun with your life right now, don't spend it worrying about some testoterone driven male. Cuz trust me, he is FULL of that wonderful hormone. Have fun, you only get to be a "kid" once. Worry about males later.
2006-09-16 02:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think he is the guy for you like omg 35 girls and i don't think he can be trusted too i think you should move on and there will be more guys that you will find and hey there is high school ;) well good luck and take care
2006-09-16 02:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by anna_banana♥LALakers. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if hes gonna stay with you for long. and tell him how you feel. dont be afraid to express your feelings. there is ALWAYS plenty of fish in the sea too. i guarantee you will meet another guy later in highschool and most definitely college
2006-09-16 02:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by Vincent G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I donut think he wants a long relationship as you do. He is only having fun and is not taking anybody seriously. At least not yet. You can not trust him.
2006-09-16 02:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for another 5 years girl.....not worth to waste your time on this puppy love. enjoy your time while you can! i missed my younger days! i'm sure you will missed yours when you are in my shoes in another nine years! trust me!
2006-09-16 02:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by immortality1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋