I have a bf..but we have only been together for 2 days. Now, the guy I have had a crush on for 2 years finally wants me. But now I'm in a relationship n I don't know what to do. Please help me!
2006-09-15 18:52:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd try out the 2 day relationship.
Your crush probably has held you 'in reserve', as a "back up plan" and now that you're about to break his plans, he wants to pull you away.
If he's worth waiting for, he'll be there if this new relationship doesn't work out.
2006-09-15 18:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always want what you can't have. He wants you now because he sees that someone else does. Give this new guy a chance. I'd seriously be looking at what old crush sees in you that he didn't before. I think if you dropped new guy for him he'd lose interest and you'd be alone again and regretting the whole thing. Seriously, why did you want this guy, and why does he want you NOW all of a sudden?
When I started seeing my current, guys were suddenly coming out of the woodwork saying I was "The one that got away." In eleven years of knowing these people NOW I'm more desirable? No way.
2006-09-16 01:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not call 2 days a relationship especially if you are under the age of 23. Try not to hurt anyone. Tell the 2 day guy about the hotty. See what he says about putting the 2 day thing on the back burner while you persue an old flame.
2006-09-16 01:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider a guy that I have been together with for 2 days a bf. What do you want?
2006-09-16 01:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by JHelper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out which one you want more. if it's the guy you're with now, then stay with him. if it's the guy you had a crush on for 2 years, maybe you should go out with him. but, if he just wants to use you to have a girlfriend, then dont do it. love is confusing and i'm not sure what to tell you. but, follow your heart.
make sure if you go out with the guy you liked for 2 years, tell the guy your in a relationship now that it wont work out, and you want to be friends.
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2006-09-16 01:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by gerardsgrl101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like your crush longer than the one your going out with now, then you should go with your crush...I was going out with a guy then the guy i liked so long finally ask me out...and now i'm happily pregnant and bout to have a great family...lol...but yeah it all depends on the chemistry the two of you have...
(Larry's Wife)
2006-09-16 01:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by Larry F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well perhaps tha other guy is only jealous? It would really break his heart to break up with him after two days.....it will make him feel like u played him......if u werent good enough for tha other dude then.....how r u now? maybe he thinks that now that u gotta bf....he think he mr.pimp and wanna take u away from otha dude!
2006-09-16 01:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might only want you because someone else finds you attractive enough to go out with. If might just want you, because he can't have you. But, he you like the guy more than your boyfriend, then take a chance and break up with him, and go out with the other guy.
2006-09-16 01:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by ohnoes82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you only have a boyfriend for 2 days?
2006-09-16 01:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only wants what he can't have. You waited on him 2 years, he can wait on you now.
2006-09-16 01:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by SouthernLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋