I don't think that I'm pretty, but I don't think I'm ugly either. But, I've only had one boyfriend, but that might be because I'm usally kinda shy.
What is more important, looks or personality. Are most guys shallow? I know guys say that they want a girl with a good personality, but I think most of them are full of ****. Is it wrong of me to think that?
2006-09-15 18:51:22 · 17 answers · asked by ohnoes82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks 100%
2006-09-15 18:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by kazak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the right man, and looks mean nothing.
I'll admit, I have a pretty face, but because of hormones, I packed on a bunch of weight when I turned 19.
I shot up from a size 0 to 18 in just 6 months.
I met my husband 9 months later, we've been married 11 years now.
I'm glad my husband accepts me for who I am, and it makes our marriage stronger on my part knowing he wouldn't leave me and that he accepts me at "face value" fat OR thin.
2006-09-15 18:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha..most guys do like pretty girls, but I don't think all of them are shallow. If you're nice, kind, stay true to yourself and being attentive, some normal clever guys will be lining up for you. Cheer up!
2006-09-15 18:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by angela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy, There are two types of girls guys look for. A girl that impresses them and a girl that impresses others. People that want a girl so that they can impress otters only care about looks. People that want a girl because they want to relate to her care about the total package
2006-09-15 18:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by david k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because that is the deal with everyone, male or female. they say they want some one who has all these wonderful characteristics but when they get them, they don't want them because they don't look like they want them to look.
what is more important is really up to you. you have to decide that and stick with that. know what you want and how you want it and make no acceptions for anyone.
and by the way, you aren't pretty, you are beautiful. always know that and never question it again.
2006-09-15 18:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my personal observation, I found out that most men goes for looks before checking all others. While women tends to like personalities more.
As for your last question. No, it isn't wrong that you think that way. It's YOUR thought. It's your privilege. You don't need anyone's approval to keep that opinion of yours.
2006-09-15 19:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by septiant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks don't mean jack to me if the heart and compatibility isn't in the right place!
I'll take an uglier than dirt guy ANY day if he's sweet than a "cute" guy, but acts like an a--hole!
2006-09-15 19:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks are not that important to me it is what we have in common,does he make you laugh and smile,do you have a good time with him, that sort of stuff that counts with me! and there are people out there that feel as i do even guys! but on the other hand there are people that only go on looks at least at first!!!!!
2006-09-15 19:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks is base....if u think u r not ugly go for a makeover....personality comes next ....in ur case both looks and personality need some makeover i guess. as per my concern the overall beauty of a person should reflect his/her goodness.....beauty is divine....not any britney spears, christina, tom cruise......so just be urself and dont hesitate for a makeover ....i mean that wont spoil one's identity. good luck!
2006-09-15 19:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are very important to me. If I don't have a physical attraction to a man I don't have any interest in him.
2006-09-15 18:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋