2006-09-15 18:49:24 · 30 answers · asked by Naty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yes.
Go to school. Make something you can be proud of.
And when you're emotionally, spiritually, physically, financially, and romantically ready, give it a try.
But at 21, no one is.
Don't let anybody tell you otherwise.
2006-09-15 18:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mario E 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WHY???????
Don't you want to enjoy being single for a few more years? If you don't have someone whom you are in live with then why would you be in a rush to get married?
If you aren't dying of something then why do you want to rush into marriage?
I don't think you have any idea as to what marriage involves or the responsibilities that come with it either and I also think that you are not acting like someone who is 21 no matter how many days ago you turned 21 because that has no baring on getting married at all.
I have no idea as to what else to say to you other then what I've said already except what's the real reason for this?
And yes, there is something very wrong with you right now if you don't already have someone you love and want to spend the REST of your life with.
2006-09-16 01:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by fedupmoma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be 21 on the 21st of September. I think we are young and still have a lot of growing up to do. I am taken my time to plan my fiance and I wedding that is in 16 months.
Never rush anything. Rushing always leads to possibility of things either messing up, regrets or realizing if waited..it could of been better than it was when received. Rushing doesn't mean too late. Sometimes it means it is too soon and not naturally ready to happen yet, but too impatient to realize that.
2006-09-16 02:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, but could be! Why the rush? To get out of your parents house? How long have you been dating/engaged?
Have you finished your education? Aren't there things you might still want to do that you might not be able to do as easily if you're married, like travel, find hobbies, etc?
I'm not implying that there is anything wrong with you because you want to get married, i just want you to examine the reasons more closely before you take the giant step.
Good Luck in whatever decision you make, I hope I answered your question.
2006-09-16 01:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by conetoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,something is wrong w/ you for being in a rush to get married.sometimes u feel u are ready and half of you afraid to lose.married life is not easy,you have lots of responsibilities.
you are young and you have plenty of time to enjoy.but if you really plan to get married when you turned 21 then be it.
2006-09-16 03:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by Aciela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't that 21 years isn't old enough to marry it is that people's expectation for life change drastically between 18 and 25.
Right now you want to marry really bad but maybe in four years you want to have a career or travel and it conflicts
with the path you two have chosen.
2006-09-16 02:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by justpatagn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, ive been ready to get married and have kids since i was 17. Now i am married, and have been working on kids for a few years now. I am completely normal. But you shouldnt rush it, let it happen naturally. If you rush it your marriage might not work out becuase you didnt wait long enough to get to know each other.
2006-09-16 02:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop stop now wait a min. you just turned 21 slow down a little you have the rest of your life to get married slow down live a little bit enjoy going out doing all the things you want to do go out and when you find the right man you can get married and have kids all you want so do your partying now CZ when you tie the not you can't do to much CZ kids you will be home a lot so my dear have your fun now good luck to you
2006-09-16 02:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah!! I felt like you at that age and saw all my friends getting married, most are divorced and remarried several times, take your time sheesh.
You don't need a piece of paper stating your love for one and another that paper just keeps you together until you want a divorce then the paper says pay the city to get the divorce.
If you love someone and they love why does the city,county,country, neighbors, anyone need to know YOUR commitment.
2006-09-16 02:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's kinda seems like your thinkin " Hell yeah I can do what ever I want now!" But.....here is some thing to think about before rushing: can u see ureself with the person for a long time or should u wait to see if he tha right one. Is he tha one u wanna spend tha rest ure life with? some ppl take is slow and steady some ppl rush right into it.....
2006-09-16 01:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO IF YOU ARE IN LOVE AND FEEL THIS IS THE NEXT STEP IN YOUR LIFE THAT YOU WANT TO TAKE NO BUT MAKE SURE YOU GET MARRIED FOR THE RIGHT REASONS. I AM 24 AND MARRIED SO THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH GETTING MARRIED YOUNG IF YOU ARE IN LOVE AND THIS IS THE PERSON YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH. THIS IS YOUR LIFE SO LIVE IT THE WAY THE MAKES YOU HAPPY DONT WORRY ABOUT WHAT ANYONE ELSE THINKS.
2006-09-16 01:54:36 · answer #11 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋