I just want to know your opinion on how much simple childhood problems effect one's life.
2006-09-15 18:48:08 · 7 answers · asked by I'm not a babii gurl, thanks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have been abused and my parents are together
2006-09-15 18:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can honestly say I was abused as a child on a daily basis, and although it was not easy I have learned to move on with my life and take responsibility and not blame my failures on a rough childhood. I'm not sure what you mean by simple childhood problems. Abuse is not simple nor only a childhood problem. However the more I learn about people the more I understand that their childhood insecurities transfer very easily to adulthood whether it was caused by abuse neglect or to much love and devotion. People either outgrow their childhood eventually and become adults or they don't and live in a constant world of self doubt because they never learned to control their hang-ups
2006-09-16 01:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by david k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine were before i knew what was going on, i was 2. i was sexually abused from 8 to 10 by a neighbor. the simple problems sometimes are not that simple because of other factors. some adults cant remember what it was like to be a kid, what is simple to some is complex to others. some of those simple problems can effect someone thru their entire life. an adult can lose their job, a kid can lose a baseball, and it will have the same effect.
2006-09-16 02:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by chris l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you ever can really come to full terms of any childhood problems with your parents,regardless of therapy,or time.In as much as memories can be just turned off like a light switch.They just can't.I have had one parent to die.My parents divorced when i was five,but i always go back and forth on issues,still.At least i have forgiven anything,but things do creep up in your life,even when you are older.It is hard for anybody to walk in your shoes,but walk we do.One step forward,and two steps back...
2006-09-16 02:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think alot of things that happened in our childhood affect us greatly...think parents who divorce, the kids are usually the ones who suffer the most...the arguing, name calling...If they drag the kids into it playing one parent as the bad guy to the kid(s)...the kids may feel like maybe it was something they did wrong or not understand how someone who is suppose to love you can just up and leave....think it takes a long time to "get over" things, but also if you want to leave the past where it belongs, you have to choose to want that, or it will consume you and not let you have peace of mind...Kids absorb the negativity and take that into adulthood...Some people have an easier time letting go, and some don't....Where abuse is concerned, I think it's the "how could that person do that to me" train of thought that someone didn't protect us...We're let down by life...Must make a choice that, that is over and your not going to let it ruin your life...Hard, definitely, but if you don't at least try to put the past where it belongs, in the past, you end up helping the drug companies pump out more anti depression medicine, and become a statistic as one more person who is taking them....
2006-09-16 02:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents aren't divorced, because my dad died when I was two. No I've never been abused.
2006-09-16 01:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but i know people who have serious problems with their parents.
2006-09-16 01:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by mondo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋