My boyfriend tells me he loves me at least like 100 times a day. And the other day he told me he can't wait to have babies with me and he can't wait to start his life with me and be with me forever. I believe him, but at the same time I feel like it is too good to be true. We have known each other for like four years and have been attracted to each other for pretty much the entire time. I love him to death and want to be with him till the day I die, but I get this feeling that I'm going to wake up any day and *poof* everything was just a dream.....Should I be paranoid or just take it in?
2006-09-15 18:47:40 · 8 answers · asked by purple haze 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he's more in love with you now then he was 2 or three years ago. Perhaps you've a reason to be paranoid, I'm sure much has happened in that four years, perhaps there's a lingering feeling of distrust? Follow your instincts and take his I love u's with a grain of salt, at least until you're sure he's not going to say, I love you, I love you, I love you, but, I also love her...
2006-09-15 19:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it in. You shouldn't let a good thing go just because you are scared. I don't know about you but I'd rather love someone and be hurt than to let a prefectly good guy go and never know what would have happened. I'm not saying have babies or anything wait until you get married to have children, but love and be loved. You have a great guy don't let him go.
2006-09-16 01:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by kiki87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never believe blindly anyone, he says 100 times a day that he loves u, does his actions also says the same. test him. true love need not to be told at least not 100 times. first be sure that u comes on top in his prioritie list
2006-09-16 01:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by neeta k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky and always appreciate what you have! I do! I'm sure I'm quite abit older than you and about a year ago found someone who I love very much! I just say a prayer everyday and thank the lord for favors granted! (You should too!) Best of wishes always!
2006-09-16 02:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good to have a doubt but don't let that makes you too paranoid! it's the best to be aware and prepare for the worst. life without any bumps and challenges is not life at all.
good luck with your relationship!
2006-09-16 02:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by immortality1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like ME! EXACTLY! and now were about to move in together, in our own place, we have a baby due oct. 8, and we still tell each other we love one another on a reg. basis. so i think you should just take it in, even tho it sounds like a dream.
2006-09-16 01:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sexiiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO JUST TAKE WHAT HE SAYING AND STOP
TRIPPING. YOU HAVE A GOOD MAN. SO STOP THE MADNESS AND THANK GOD THAT YOU HAVE FOUND SOMEONE THAT LOVE YOU LIKE THAT. YOU ONLY FIND
ONE IN A LIFETIME A TRUE LOVE. IT SOUND LIKE YOU
GOT IT. SO JUST TAKE IT IN FOR ALL IT WORTH.
2006-09-16 01:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will still be here.
2006-09-16 01:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋