I wenr on my date with my bf john and he had told me that his ex gf and him when they where dating kissed. I met her and asked her about it and she said it didn't happen!!!!! He avoided me for about 5 minutes!!!! When i finally found him he was upset!!!! He said that him and his ex had a fight about what i told her!!!! I was about to start crying right infront of him i didn't mean for that to happen!!!!! He also told me that he was gonna breakup with me last monday but my friend told him that i said that he was a great bf!!! Which is totally true!!!! But now he's upset!!!! What can i say to him when i call him tomarrow!?!?!
Plz help!!!
Kelse
2006-09-15 18:24:53 · 13 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps this dispute is not so much about who kissed whom and when.
Your boyfriend obviously wants some serious kissing from you. And if you are not going to give it to him, then he will move on and find another girlfriend.
The reason why guys want to be friends with girls is because they want some intimacy with them. And no guy is going to stay with a girl for long, if she holds back on the intimacy too much.
I suggest that you tell your boyfriend you want to kiss with him, when see him next time. This will make him happy.
2006-09-15 18:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM!!! Drop it like it's HOT!!
Why?? because any time you have to deal with the "ex" factor, you are in for some major drama. His past relationships shouldnt even be a factor.
DONT EVEN CALL HIM!! Seriously, any dude that says he's going to break up with you---CLEARLY DOESNT WANT YOU ENOUGH***emphasis***
Don't lie to yourself anymore. Find someone who can let go of the past and move on with life being with YOU.
2006-09-16 01:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm I think its better to leave such a bf dont you?
Come on..this is a silly reason for him to start a fight with!
I think he is scaring you by telling he's gonna break up!? I think its really immature on his part.
Move on with your life,get a matured bf not a liar.
2006-09-16 01:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa whoa, kiddo.... if the guy is gunna break up with you for talking to an ex about kissing then you don't need him anyway. Seriously, who needs someone so high strung?
2006-09-16 01:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!!!
HE STILL HAS "BAGGAGE" (HIS EX GIRLFREIND) HANGING AROUND. IT WILL CONTAMINATE ANY FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS.
HE IS UPSET WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU FOUND HIM OUT.
IF YOU FEEL REASON TO QUESTION, WONDER, OR WORRY ABOUT WHAT HE IS DOING, OR HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU, THEN YOU CAN DO BETTER.
FIND A GUY YOU FEEL LIKE BRAGGING ABOUT.
YOU CAN DO BETTER. BREAK UP WITH HIM AND FIND A GUY THAT HAS NO BAGGAGE.
2006-09-16 01:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE FACT THAT HE UPSET WITH YOU, SHOULD TELL YOU
THAT HE LYING ABOUT WHAT HAPPEN WITH HIS EX BECAUSE IF NOTHING HAPPEN THEN WHY IS HE SO UPSET
AND WHY IS HE WITH HIS EX IN THE FIRST PLACE. AND IF'
WANT TO BREAK UP LET HIM. HIS LOSS NOT YOURS. GET
BEND OUT OF SHAPE IS NOT GOOD. IT REALLY SOUND
KIND OF FISHY . TO ME.
2006-09-16 01:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK..SO WHY DiD U ASK HiS EX THAT QUESTiON ANYWAYS?! iF THiNGS HAPPENED BEFORE U CAME iNTO THE PiCTURE, U NEED TO LEAVE THEM ALONE!!! ONLY BAD THiNGS CAN OF PRYiNG!!
2006-09-16 01:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by MiZZ MONTANA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound desparate move on, he sounds like a jerk he is more worried about his ex's feelings than yours, and if he wants to break up let him he will only cheat on you !!
2006-09-16 01:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by No Liabilities 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tooooooooooo much DRAMA!
2006-09-16 01:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too young for this...study hard and go to college
2006-09-16 01:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋