ok heres the story me and my boyfriend were totally in love buit my dad made us break up (before school ended for summer)...and now that were back in school...we still love each other and everything...but just this week he had a hicky on his neck...and it wasnt from me...and he told me how he got it...he said when he huged the girl he was hanging with good bye she just gave it to him...he said he was pissed and it sounds like bull **** but he's never lied to me...so i kind of believe him...then to day he were flirting and everything and just acting like we use to do when we were together and i kissed him...and it was great...but now i get stop thinking of the hicky he had and im wondering if i made a mistake by kissing him........im so confused i dont know what to believe anymore
2006-09-15 18:13:58 · 20 answers · asked by Sam15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can only assume that he is telling the truth (even if it does seem a bit unlikely) till you catch him out. If you make a fuss with no proof and he is telling the truth you wil just upset the relationship you have. You did not state what reason your dad made you break up, and without that it is hard to give advise as 'did your dad have a valid reason' 'was this boy bad news'? But aside from that, I think if you intend to see this boy you need to keep your eyes and ears open to make sure that you pick up on anything that may tell you he is playing more than one girl at a time. But innocent until proven guilty. But also remember most boys wont say no to a kiss from a pretty girl!
2006-09-15 18:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MMmmm ya. Love is a complicated thing that takes dedication, understanding, and commitment.
Perhaps this realy isn't love. Take your time in relationships.
AS far as what to do, well, keep some distance. Still be friends. It is quite possible he has lost that loving feeling because of the distance between you two.
If it was meant to be then it will all work out.
Give your guy the benefit of the dount on this if he says he didn't cheat but keep an eye on his actions.
2006-09-15 18:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's never given you a reason to distrust him then I'd have to say that you should give him the benefit of the doubt. You'd want him to extend that same courtesy if the roles were reversed, wouldn't you? I'd certainly tell him that you aren't comfortable with it and that it really made you upset and worrisome and even waver in your trust for him if you guys can talk like that.
But if he ever pulls that crap again, you know where the dumpser is, girl - behind the building where the skeezy animals eat garbage.
2006-09-15 18:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend again. If the two of you still love eachother you should be boyfriend and girlfriend. Once the two of you are in a commited relationship, he probably won't ever get a hicky again or spend time with other girls.
2006-09-15 18:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by ms. fix-it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the hickey was from before you guys got back together it might of been just a little fling but if he is with you all the time now i wouldnt worry about it. But ask him if that is really the truth becasue i do not know any girl that would just give a guy a hickey for no reason.
2006-09-15 18:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with what you feel. if you can't get over the hicky, break it off. but if your heart wants to go for it, do it. yeah, you might get hurt. but if you don't give it a try it'll still hurt, you'll always wonder, it'll never feel finished. and if you don't follow your heart because your head tells you to avert the possibility of getting hurt, you'll never be able to take a chance with anyone. because chances are, in this lifetime, you're gonna get hurt.
fools rush in, where angels fear to tread.
but i say, carpe deim. (seize the day.)
2006-09-15 18:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl, he's lying. He could of pushed away from the other girl when she was sucking his neck but he didn't. There is a better guy out there that is actually worth your while. You don't need a liar.
2006-09-15 18:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by PANDABEAR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not together with him anymore so honestly its none of your business. If hes never lied to you then take his word. You have to let that go since you weren't together. You can't hold that against him since you broke it off with him before summer break.
2006-09-15 18:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by Heather A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to feel the way you do
and now you know why your dad made you break up
he has been there done that
Your daddy is right
believe that.
2006-09-15 18:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by Queen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem,until i asked the truth,and he broke my heart!It's up to you to decide what you would do,but me,if a hicky is on his neck,it's wrong no matter what he says hapened.
2006-09-15 18:23:20 · answer #10 · answered by katea o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋