2006-09-15 17:25:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ China
Since you posted this in Travel for China.
I have heard of the following, I do not know how true it is. Men in Hong Kong have girlfriends or wives in Hong Kong and girlfriends in Shenzhen. Which is right across the border. Why? Chinese have to have visa to go into Hong Kong's economic zone and they can only go a couple times a year unless they have business. I cannot see much reason for a person in Hong Kong to go to Shenzhen except for shopping for inexpensive things. It's only an hour train ride each way.
Just have a businesses in both Hong Kong and Shenzhen. Taadah!!! Or Shanghai or Macao or......
I realize that sometimes you marry for appearances in China or for family reasons. I don't condone this but, if you can afford it why the hell not. Just keep your stories straight. Hahahaha
2006-09-16 04:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by gbdelta1954 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first man I've got to ask ,why did you get married.But yes have you ever heard don't play in your own back yard,basically I'm saying take your playing to the next state over ,you might spend more in gas, but the odds of them knowing each other and your wife finding out will drop dramatically. A piece of advice alittle more assurance don't tell anyone cause even the best of friends do tell trust me on that one.
2006-09-15 17:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, tell your wife, you won't live long enough to worry about having a mistress!
2006-09-15 18:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by shiningthowra 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Always keep it very personal and confidential. Never, never tell anybody, even you got cheated by your mistress. Most important factor, you must be prepared to have a "loss, loss situation", accept failure in this kind of relationship. Otherwise, please stay faithful to your wife.
2006-09-15 22:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's not a good idea at all. It will only complicate your life and maybe destroy your marriage since women are very sensitive to this matter and your wife will sooner or later find it out.
2006-09-15 17:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not a good idea. mistress takes your cash like drinking water. wife treats your cash for future. think about it !!!
2006-09-15 22:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by Carena T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
however smart and wise u r, ur gonna get caught one day.. trust me.. no wife is that stupid for long. why, no more respect for the wife eh? maybe one day ur wife will do the same to u and thats when u will feel how bad it is eh? anyways.. even the best players get caught when its their time to get caught.
God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong...
2006-09-18 18:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah ... try treating your wife like she was your new mistress!!!
2006-09-15 17:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by abracadabragal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask you friend to sleep with her in the night, so that she thinks you are sleeping with her. You jump to your mistress house. Great idea ? ah?
2006-09-15 21:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by ourindiya 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't ever think that YOU are smarter than her. Cause at the end of all of this YOU will be the one who will pay a higher price. Too much to lose my friend!!
Women ALWAYS find out sooner than later!!
2006-09-15 18:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋