i dont know i think im going crazy but one of my very best friends told me like two months ago that he liked me, i told him that i didnt feel the same way, he said it was okay but then a couple of days later he said something was bothering him so i asked him what it was and he said he was in love with me. i figured it was just a little crush or something because he had already had two crushes before me but it ended whithin a week but never over two months like this. and now all of a sudden today he told me that he didnt love me even though my good friend told me last night when he was talking to her that he was talking about how he felt and that he still liked me and stuff and now im just confused, was he lying or is he for real i mean can u really get over a person in overnight? and the weirdest thing is is that i think i have feelings for him since a couple days ago b4 he told me he didnt like me anymore. plz give me some advice, and no rude comments,i know it sounds stupid, thanx!
2006-09-15 16:56:37 · 20 answers · asked by Ali 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay.
HIS MIND: i don't want her to think im obsessing over her! what if i freak her out and we aren't friends anymore!! i have to lie to her i have to tell her im over her.... oh but i wish i could just have her as mine....
and YOUR MIND: why doesn't he like me anymore?! whats wrong with me? what happened?? i want him to like me again!!
basically, this is just a guess, but a very VERY accurate guess. trust me, he still loves you he just wants you as friends, not as nothing. you really do have feelings for him you just didn't realize it. "you don't know what you got till its gone" that saying is so true.
heres my advice, straight from me to you: tell him you like him. he will take it well, trust me.
2006-09-15 17:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok heres the truth he opend up to u and told u how he really felt which made him vulnurable and being rejected byt he person he "loves" 2wice made him feel liike crap so he probably said that to feel better so if i were u i would just still b there for him and act like nothing happen dont ignore the guy cuz thats not right and its mean. the only solution is to b friends and try to just be friends with out verbly saying it.
2006-09-15 17:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by John k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I assume both of you are really young. If so, accept that this is just the way it is. Remember how in grade school you would shift your circle of friends all the time? Its like that. Don't expect much more than a few days of heart flutters from these puppy love infatuations.
2006-09-15 16:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He, I think your best friend still likes you. But since you rejected him a couple of months ago, he isn't confident anymore and probably decided to make it easier between you two. If you like him or think there will ever be a chance of you liking him, you should talk to him more.
2006-09-15 16:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a person can't turn off feelings that quickly. He is trying to save face and you are attracted to him because he says he doesn't like you anymore. Wow.
Why not sit down together and have an honest conversation?
2006-09-15 17:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 00:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he told you that bc he doesnt want you to tell him anything hurtful like you not feeling the same way he does. he knows he can tell your other friend without hearing anything hurtful. i think he still does love you or like you. if you do like him you really need to tell him bc you two could be a match made in heaven!!! good luck girlie
2006-09-15 17:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just said he didn't like you because he was afraid of chasing you away.
He NEVER stopped having a crush on you. That's obvious.
I'm glad you have started having feelings for him too.
He'll be on cloud nine if you tell him.
Wow. I'd love to see THAT!
Tell him Tell him Tell him!
2006-09-15 17:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by Molly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He thinks your not interested and worried you will run him off if he keep telling you he loves u so he told you he did not like you so he can stay around does that make sense
2006-09-15 17:01:56 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God and ask for guidance. If you follow your heart and gut feelings then you will get the real answer to this situation.
2006-09-15 17:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sapphira♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋