my g/f and i recently split up, yes, she dumped me, i have no problem with that, but now i am very casually seing another woman who is a freind of my ex. when i say casually, i mean nothing sexual (yet), just took her to a resturante and a club a couple of times. We have slept together, but like i say, nothing sexual has happened. now my ex is bombarding both of us with emails, and turns up un announced, it doesn't help that all 3 of us work together, my ex also copys what i am wearing sends me pictures of herself and several other petty things. even falsly claimed she was pregnant. my question is, what the **** is wrong with women.... first she dumps me (yayyyy) then wants me back 2 days later after she hears i slept with one of her freinds..... and is there a chance of a 3 some here....... the guys know what i mean.
2006-09-15 16:55:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that you slept with one of her friends creates a disgust on her part. That's too unfair of the two of you (you and your x's friend). Of all people that you know, why get in touch with her friend? There is also something wrong with your common friend that she didn't even think of the possibilities if she and you go out and sleep even without anything sexual happening.
Not all women are like that.. Something's wrong with what you did and you have to admit that.
Can you imagine your ex ging out and sleeping with one of your friends?
2006-09-15 17:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
erm... yr ex is kinda of childish. probably rather insecure & cant stand being alone after the breakup. well, it definitely make a gal angry when she feels that her ex-bf "so quickly" gets another girl though it's a "casually seeing". women view such a situation as e ex-bf didnt treasure e relationship with her previously. wateva yr ex-gf is doing (claiming e she's pregnant), is just ways to get u back. n maybe breaking this casual relationship wit e girl u going out with now. doubt u ever get a 3some, cos by e looks of yr ex-gf, she is a rather possessive person. (i'm sorry to say but e way u write seems that u dont take relationships seriously.)
2006-09-15 17:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by janying87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like she dumped you to get your attention. There was something that she needed or wanted from you that she wasn't getting. She thought that if she dumped you, you'd see the error of your ways and beg to have her back. Not to smooth going after her friend though. Or a co-worker for that matter. But, I think that next time, she will probably chose a different path.
2006-09-15 17:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Joanne M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think with the big head, man. A three way with these psychos is only going to turn out bad. Do you really need that?
Sounds to me like your former GF has some major growing up to do. Move on. You can do a lot better.
2006-09-15 17:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong choice...NEVER go with an EX"S friend...they will eventually gossip about you, whether it is true or false...AND OH MY GOD, you worked together...not good!!! She is a stalker TYPE...you have dug yourself a hole...i am sorry to say that...But you may have to get a "restraining order" from the Police DEPT....i mean, it is getting VICIOUS...making up false claims that she is pregnant...that's what some women do to try to RUIN a guy....MY ADVICE IS TO LET HER FRIEND GO...just tell her there is too much drama around your ex-girlfriend,,,,and you feel it is best to just remain friends at this time...GEEZZZZZZZZZZZ...or quit your job...that is very bad...sorry!
2006-09-15 17:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous and doesn't want her friend to have you.
It is a big blow to her ego and she is trying to sabotage your new relationship. Don't fall for it and just ignore her.
Tell her you have moved on and to please respect your choice. Once you find out in live that all women are crazy you have won half the battle. All women are truly crazy and they get really crazy when they are jealous.
It's her loss that she dumped you and you are making her eat her words by dating her friend. It was the best move you could ever make to get back at her. Enjoy what you have done and enjoy your new realationship.
Good job my friend!
2006-09-15 17:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by Trevor B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres no gentle way of saying this...whats wrong with you for not instantly seeing through her? You know what, you chose her...and just because she turned out to be a bad egg, don´t blame the rest of womankind. I´m not that kind of girl...there still are loyal girls out there, girls who know how to be real women...and if you´d found one of those in the first place, you´d have been fine
2006-09-15 16:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by celticivory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's not "What's up with women?" it's "What's up with THIS woman?"
Sounds like a psycho to me.
But if you're hoping for a threesome, then you're not interested in any real relationship anyhow.
So what the hell - sounds like you're all good for eachother.
2006-09-15 17:10:06 · answer #8 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is jealous. As far as a 3 some.... that would really make things bad!! As if things arent confusing enough for you.
2006-09-15 16:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mistake was dating her friend and getting over her so quickly, most gurls like to think that the men they dump will at least hurt for a heartbeat before they move on lol
2006-09-15 16:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by teneesha2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋