In a new relationship for last 6wks... no hard physical stuff yet due to medical problems, work comittments, etc. Doomed to failure?
2006-09-15 16:54:20 · 12 answers · asked by PICKLES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe that if it is meant to be then it doesnt matter if you sleep together after two hours or two months.
important relationships are not about the physical - it's about being together - if you then choose to be physical in that time then thats your preference.
2006-09-15 17:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by LYNSEY M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships start with physical attraction and work into inner attraction. Most successful relationships blossom over time. In order to make any commitment there should be a passing of time in order to see the real person whom you are dating.
We always put on our best when we first meet anyone.
Take your time.... and listen, learn and watch your love interest.
You don't have to have physical interaction right away unless "you" want to. It is your decision. There are no expectations for that in any society's beliefs.
Remember that it's easy to live with the good parts of your partner. Its the bad parts that you have to learn to live with and they take time to know.
Good Luck
2006-09-16 00:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, statistically speaking relationships that wait until marriage before they have sex have a better chance of going the long term. Because when you abstain from sex before marriage your partner knows you will be considerably less likely to cheat on them after marriage. And that works for both the guys and gals.
2006-09-16 00:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there are relationships that wait until marriage before hard physical stuff IE sex and the relationships work out great and the marriages work out great. I condone no sex till marriage anyway
2006-09-15 23:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex makes a flimsy glue if you are using it to hold a relationship together; if your S/O can't deal with the situation and leaves; you really have not lost anything significant.
2006-09-15 23:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt want to be sleeping with someone after 6 wks anyway. If it fails, so what. people need to learn to wait and just stop jumping into bed with other people so quickly
2006-09-16 00:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by m j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im with my gf of 6 weeks she a virgin an says shes waiting for the right person her longest ex was 6 months so i jus waiting i may never get to sleep with her but i do enjoy spending time with her sex is not everthing but it is part of it. if they like you enough they wait if not they were'nt worth it. good luck
2006-09-16 00:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to sleep with some one to hold the relationship together..I"m sorry you feel that way... buy ...there are better ways to make a relationship work.. WITH Out sex
2006-09-16 00:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is what the other person is expecting then no. One virtue of love is patience.
2006-09-15 23:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by Dolf-Wolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. if the guy really likes you, he will wait if you are not ready. if he can't , then he's not the one you should be with
2006-09-16 09:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by fed up 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋