such that neither party desires to keep in contact. Now he's been transfered out but there is a high chance he will be posted back to work in the same dept. What is the best thing for the girl to do. How to react when he returns?
The fella was the unkind one in the matter.
2006-09-15 16:52:19 · 16 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore him he doesn't matter don't let him get to you let him know you have moved on.
2006-09-15 16:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to act in this situation is professionally. Treat him the way she would treat any other co worker. Treat him the way she would like to be treated, with respect.
Leave the hurt feelings and resentment at home away from the job. Be polite and only speak to him when absolutely necessary but if you pass each other in the hall, say good morning just like you would to anyone else.
2006-09-15 16:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by nellie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Office romance - exciting, huh? But not so exciting now - more uncomfort? This is why this is such a bad idea. What's done is done. He was wrong - you are better then him if you move on and don't look back.
2006-09-15 17:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by LaDonna J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated somebody from paintings, we are nevertheless collectively, It replaced into exciting. there replaced into no enforced code for interwork kinfolk so no-one minded too plenty. in fact, there have been some different couples on the comparable time i've got self belief. besides we could have sneaky kissing instructions in the equiptment cabinet. paintings is not any exciting now because of the fact he left! i think of it relies upon on our surroundings you paintings in and the type of persons you paintings with. possibly a comfortable coverage, consisting of it is executed, yet no longer something in-your-face, huge make out instructions in front of all of us and so on. And sure, encouraging after paintings occasion feels like a reliable concept. Probiting it completely could be very difficult i could think of, in spite of everything you spend greater time collectively with your paintings colleagues than maximum persons on your life, so flirtation and romance is helpful to advance.
2016-12-12 09:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work with 1100 guys. Trust me on this one! Act like he is a co-worker like any other. no different. The thing here is to maintain your professional integrityi n the eyes of your boss.Who cares what this guy does if he gets back? He's old news.Worry about yourself, not him.
2006-09-15 16:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by basketchick43078 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, remember that there are three sides to these stories: His side, her side and the truth.
This is why office romance is a risky business. Unless one or both of them are prepared to have this effect their careers, they are going to have to just suck it up and be professional.
2006-09-15 16:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You, my child, have learnt one of many rules of life: never date an office mate. Hope you can tell others.
2006-09-15 16:56:32 · answer #7 · answered by Morgan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with askaway. Maintain your professional decorum and just block him out emotionally.
2006-09-15 16:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't pay any attention to him. Your there to work right. If he causes you problems, go to the boss. I will all go away with time.
2006-09-15 16:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by noname 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ice cubes and and the ice bergs of Antartica are cool and distant. Ditto answer.
2006-09-15 16:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
be polite and just keep the relationship professional...dont discuss personal issues with him
2006-09-15 16:53:56 · answer #11 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋