My girlfriend has recently been hanging out with this guy she knows i hate, they have had a sexual relationship in the past, but now she assures me that it is only friendly. she devotes most of her time with me, but when she is at school, the only person she talks to is him (i don't go to her school). any reasoning behind this and/or sugesstions on what i should do?
2006-09-15 16:42:26 · 10 answers · asked by gunther 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel for you bro. Talking from experience, you better end their relationship quick. My ex-wife started hanging out with one of her ex-boyfriends and 3 months later she filed for divorce. Guess who the first guy she hooked with was.That's right the "just a friend" she started hanging out with again. When ex's start hanging out old feelings come back sometimes and they might act upon them. Take action quick my friend before it's to late.
2006-09-15 16:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Angelus 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off I want to stress that these are just my opinions so they may not be accurate in your situation. Second, I think you should talk to your girl and tell her how her talking to him makes you feel. I noticed you said she speaks to *only* him at school so is that something she told you? I'm just wondering because if you two dont go to the same school how would you know she only talks to him? My guess is while yes she may be friends with him I think possibly shes testing you to see if you'll react to this and/or if you trust her. Then there is the ugly side which you may need to consider also that she may be getting sexual fulfillment from him again. Bottom line is I think you need to talk to your girl dont just assume shes cheating because there is always a chance she is just friends with the guy. Good luck.
2006-09-15 17:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by April 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U DONT WANT TO GET HURT U NEED TO LET HER GO IF U CAN NOT TRUST HER.. THEY HAVE ALREADY HAD A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP AND WHAT IS KEEPING HER FROM DOING IT AGAIN... SHE IS AT SCHOOL WITH HIM ALLL DAY AND SHE TALK TO HIM ALL THE TIME.... WATCH OUT!!!!
2006-09-15 16:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by TANNER GIRL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is playing with fire. I don't blame you for being pissed at her. If she doesn't respect your feelings, then you have a problem.
You need to have a serious talk with your girlfriend and set some boundaries together as to what is acceptable.
2006-09-15 16:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple, tell her the truth. You don't feel comfortable with her talking to her ex-boyfriend all the time.
Or you could just man up and tell HIM to stop talking to YOUR GIRLFRIEND all the time.
2006-09-15 17:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by Redrum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, get over it, just 'cause your not his friend, doesn't mean she can't be!!! You are so lke a guy!!! Get over it!!! If she is YOUR girlfriend and you trust her, what's the problem??? Or, don't you trust her??? Talk to her if it's going to kill you!!!
2006-09-15 16:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by Miley#1Fan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Angelus. Thumbs up!
2006-09-15 16:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. BIG 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree..
dump her s*kanky a** ! she loves attention obviously.. and not in the good way
2006-09-15 16:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by risaNaldo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is torturing you for her own jollies. Dump her skanky ***.
2006-09-15 16:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is joking with you... trying to be funny.
2006-09-15 16:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by steve 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋