Is there any way I find out if my boyfriend is cheating, without him knowing?...?

Question

...Without hiring a private investigator?

Answer 1

chek his cell
wallet
smell him
spy on him

Answer 2

I dont recommend it because you will always be remembered as "the person who cheated and is unfaithful". If you're thinking about going with someone else, you might as well break up with the guy you're with. But if you're going to cheat anyway, i think you should buy a wig thats a different hair color/length than your own and glasses(or contacts if you already wear them) and go out in a disguise. That way you wont have to worry about anyone recognizing you while being in the act. but its probably more trouble living double lives...

Answer 3

Simple: ask around. But I don't think you even need to get to that point. I mean, if you suspect that he's cheating... thats already a red flag right there. The problem is, you have a major trust issue in your relationship. And thats the bottom line. That alone indicates to me that the two of you guys probably shouldn't be together anyway.

Answer 4

Without a P.I you'll just make yourself crazy trying to catch him, & you'll always run the risk of being wrong unless you catch him with his hand in the proverbial cookie jar.
The question is how much do you have invested in this relationship. If you are making wedding plans, then a P.I for a day or two will seem cheap in the long run.
If you are only in the dating stage, & you have any reason to mistrust him, & you want to save your money, then cut your losses & dump him.

Answer 5

when he says he is going to a specific place drive by there or use another car like a friends to see if he is actually there another sign his caller id and phone messages... does he act different around you lately if so you could have a cheater check his cell phone to see if you reconise any of the contact names. have a friend follow him when he leaves work. then ask him what he did today to see if he is hiding something..good luck!!

Answer 6

The least expensive way to find out if your mate is cheating on you is to give them plenty of rope to hang themselves with. I mean, if they think you are keeping close tabs on them, because you suspect they are cheating, they'll be far more secretive about it, than if they think you're too stupid to suspect anything they're doing.

Answer 7

I read this is a book: If he uses condoms, he probably keeps them in his wallet like most guys. With a black marker, put a tiny dot at one corner of the package. Check his wallet the next tiime you see him and look for the dot. If it's not there, it means he used the condom. Of course, if he doesn't use condoms with you and you find one in his wallet, that'll tell ya something.

Answer 8

Get one of your friends to check it out... if you think he might be cheating, chances are he IS! Either that or you are the one who's cheating??? Usually only cheaters suspect their mates of doing the same...

Answer 9

if he is cheating, eventually you will know to...ask him if he is then pay close attention to how he reacts to the question..if he gets defensive about it chances are he is...if he is kinda calm about it maybe not but dont let your guard down..some men are really good at lieing and knows how to act and pull it off...good luck...

Answer 10

ask a close female friend to hit on him.. if he takes the bait then you'll know.

Answer 11

have your friends follow him. And call cheaters. TheWB.com...... You can get info their. Good luck