I was looking in the history of my internet today and I saw that my boyfriend was trying to find his ex's phone #. And I also found out he was trying to get a background check on her... do you think I have the right to be mad? I want to confront him about but I can't figure out why this upset me...
What do you guys think?
Would you be mad?
What should I do?
2006-09-15 16:38:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd get a new boyfriend, She's still on his mind, ALOT!
2006-09-15 16:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have the right to be mad? Yes, he shouldn't be using your computer at your house to find out about his ex.
What do I think? He's hung up on her, kick him to the curb.
Would I be mad? Yes, he's string me along when he likes somebody else.
What should you do? Confront him and dump his butt.
You are probably upset because this is a trust issue. You should not have to worry about past relationships of his. You are his current girl, so he should not be chasing down old flings. If he wants to get back with her, he should at least have had the decency to tell you that he wants to go separate ways before he starting looking. It was dishonest, not to mention rude, to look her up on your pc behind your back.
2006-09-15 16:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you checked you internet history today that's probably because you suspected something, and that's not a good sign. This was just waiting to happen.
Your boyfriend is still getting over his ex, just talk to him, that's all, you can't keep living in doubts and fear that he's going to leave you.
2006-09-15 16:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by ibelieveicanfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can see why your upset i would be to it proubally upst you becouse you know has no right doing that and why would he want to he has you if i found my bf looking for his ex's # i would say hes trying to get back with her.
look if i didnt help im sorry but this is just my personal oppinion just remember don't jump to conclusions it could be anything you should just calmly ask him but dont rush
2006-09-15 16:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by hottie_11689 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree %100. Don't let him get the best of you, but in the same respect, don't wait on him, at all.
2006-09-15 16:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by diannas_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mad. But walk away. He's apparently not over her.
2006-09-15 16:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by MathGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you observe first then make your move, you don know what is he up to~! confirm first if he really intent to get together with his ex then you can do your thing.
2006-09-15 16:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.
2006-09-15 16:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋