I really like this guy i met during this acting thing, and i'm pretty sure he likes me too. thing is, we go to different schools, so i haven't actually seen him for a while. we talk a lot through email, but im finding myself thinking about him all the time. I just wanted help finding out if he likes me or not, and what I can do to get him to like me. we have a lot in common and really connected. this is my first semi-relationship, please help!
2006-09-15 16:26:49 · 24 answers · asked by Zasm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First thing you need is a cold shower. Then slowly direct your emails to such things as what's going on in town, what activities he likes or you like, etc. If he doesn't get the hint, then tell him you really want to go to the *whatever* that's happening soon, and ask him.
OR, find some school project or other and ask for his help at the library.
2006-09-15 16:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, just be yourself when you're talking with him. If you fake it out or put on a show for him everytime you talk/see eachother, how is your relationship going to be? You dont want to have to act in front of him all the time. He should appreciate you for you, and if he doesn't, than hes not the guy whos going to make you happy. Have fun with it, and after a while, try flirting a little bit. If he seems to like it too, you should approach him with it. Now, I'm a little old fashioned (not old, lol), and I think that a guy should ask out the girl. But its all up to you, if you think its right, then go for it! Good luck!
2006-09-15 23:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy likes sex. Few guys can resist a reasonably attractive woman who is willing to have sex with them. And latest scientific research has found that orgasmic surges of prolactin and other hormones in the blood bind men and women together. One sure and natural way for a woman to get and keep a guy is to have sex with him a lot on a regular basis.
You probably have the natural assets that will appeal to the sexual side of this guy. And all you have to do is overcome your cultural inhibitions. Once you start using the full potential of your female talents and assets on this guy, then very likely he will fall for you according to his male nature. His male hormones won't let him have any choice in this matter.
Overcoming the barriers in their minds is the greatest difficulty both men and women have in making relationships happen. Love becomes easy once you overcome these barriers.
Sex creates feelings that bind men and women together. When you reverse the order and try to put feelings before sex, then making relationships happen becomes very difficult and hard to achieve.
2006-09-16 00:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in an email that you won't be online to chat tomorrow, because you're hitting the mall or whatever. But if he wants to call you on your cell, feel free and leave your number. That will put the ball in his court with no pressure. If he REALLY likes you, then he'll call. If he says, "that's alright. I'll catch you another day," then you have your answer.
2006-09-15 23:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Joanne M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too desperate! You need to let it be known you like him then let him make the next move. You never want to make a guy like you, you will end up with a broken heart. Don't sit around thinking about him all of the time, enjoy your life.
2006-09-15 23:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try anything to get him to like you. Either he likes you or he doesnt. It seems that he does or he wouldnt talk to you a lot. so there must be something there. If you talk to him through email just ask him if he likes you. Its not like you have to talk to him face to face. Or tell him you met another guy who asked you out. just tell him you like this"fake guy" name him Kyle. but tell him that you like him more and you want to know how he feels before you tell "kyle" yes or no. If he likes you he'll say so if not he'll tell you to go for the other guy. It will work
2006-09-15 23:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by ashleyeb23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he live close enough that it's possible for you to see him? Ask him, as a friend, to meet you somewhere or to go shopping with you to help you pick something out. If you're really friends he shouldn't mind & then you'll get a chance to be around him & see how he acts.
2006-09-15 23:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said that you are pretty sure that he likes you rite, so there is actually no need to find out if he likes you, rather, you need to make him admit that he does have feelings for you. i am not sure wat you two talk about in emails but you can ask about what he looks for in a galfriend, and if the things he stated are qualities you possess, maybe you can say in a joking matter "hey, that sounds like me, *grin* " and see if he would seize the chance to tell you that he is actually referring to you. what happens next is all about sincerity and honesty from both parties...
2006-09-15 23:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by riffee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know telling them is hard to do. Maybe you should have a friend make up a fake email and email him and say "Hey do you think ____ is pretty?" or something and say that he found his email when he got an email from you.
I hope that makes sense!
2006-09-15 23:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, this is not a desperate situation. Second, ask him if he likes you and wants to do something. Third, be yourself. You can't make someone like you. If he doesn't, move on.
2006-09-15 23:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋