every guy sucks! they're incredibly clueless when it comes to relashhionships and i get so vexed about it! should i jsut go out with them anyway or wait the rest of my youth to find someone who wont be as clueless?!
2006-09-15 16:10:33 · 12 answers · asked by clim234 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie....You haven't met Damned fan...I can spell and always put the toilet seat down after I use it
2006-09-15 16:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Damned fan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an excellent question, which I'll answer as fatherly advice that you don't have to read if you don't want to.
You're correct and I think it can be compared to a basketball game, where you should wait until you have either a sure shot, or one with great odds.
And you should retain your viriginity until you're married above all else. The ideal man would be one who would also have this standard, but the next best thing would be one who has respect for you.
Develop your skills and your talents and build a life. I'd say don't waste it on the ones who are jerks - your time is too valuable.
Anyway, I think you get what I'm trying to convey.
2006-09-15 23:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from ME . . . I'm STILL single (at 43) and am still waiting on my "Mr. Right". I've been on LOTS of dates, have had MANY relationships, all to find they aren't who they say they are, treat me badly or we just aren't compatible.
I still BELIEVE and am convinced that all men aren't bad seeds. There's gotta be someone out there who is one who will appreciate me for what I am and build a strong, loving life with me.
I've learned that you HAVE to go through many trials and tribulations (hurting) to get the right one. I know I'm not giving up yet!
I know it gets "old" after a while, but I feel that having the right guy in the end is totally worth all the crap I'm going through! For every relationship I have, I learn something new. I use this information to make the next one better somehow! As each gets better, I'm on my way to finding my true love, my soul mate, my partner, my best friend.
I KNOW that I'll eventually be married to my one and only and be happier than ever!
Good luck!!!!!
2006-09-15 23:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by penwrite5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what is the urgency of dating for you? are you evaluating yourself by others? I am not sure whether you are looking for real longterm relationship or just want to have so called bf/gf type relationship.
anyway, my suggestion is just hang in there, maintain friendly relationship with others and enjoy your youth in a decent manner. do not follow the path of others who are clueless of life and gone astray by running after artificial passions. control yourself and think constructive.
real relationship takes time to be achieved so dont worry just concentrate in your job or study. everything would be fine.
i wish you good luck.
sorry, i do not agry with your comment " every guy sucks!" . if thats your impression about guys , pls know that you are completely in the wrong world. wake up!
2006-09-15 23:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by Deepthoughts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clueless about what? If they really sucked, they'd be gay and you wouldn't want them anyway. As for clueless, do you know what you are looking for?
2006-09-15 23:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by J j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to stand up for men on this one. Not all men are clueless, there are some good ones out there.
2006-09-15 23:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wheres the fun in waiting it out get out there and date and then u are ready for the mature guys by having dealt with the immature ones
2006-09-15 23:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by The Ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking the same thing about women! yall never know what yall want in a relationship, and if you do...it'll change about every 5 minutes
2006-09-15 23:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend doesn't suck and isn't clueless :)
I'm just good like that...
2006-09-15 23:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yesssss i agree.
Guys totally suck and are pretty useless.
They never seem to know what they want...!
2006-09-15 23:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋