i am aways fightihg with my mom now cuz she is all ways talking bad about my dad and my mom made me move from orlando i think it is cuz she didn' t want to be close to my dad any more and on top of that there is evry thing else going on in my life....... what should i do?
ps. i am despratie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-15 15:50:44 · 6 answers · asked by ottislovesmegan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well sounds like your mom is going thru alot so she is probably hard to live with new place and new job . stressfull . do you have any contact with your dad? maybe you could go back and spend spring break and summers with him so you can look forward to something in the mean time your stuck
2006-09-15 15:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom and Dad have issues. None of them should include you. Tell Mom you don't want to hear what she has to say about Dad. Tell her to find someone else to confide in, because you choose to be neutral. Don't respond to anything she has to say about him. There is no reason to fight. When she is calm tell her you want to continue to see your Dad ask her how you can arrange it so she doesn't have to be involved. Will Dad pay your bus fare round trip to visit him? Does he have a place for you to stay? If you go to visit him don't talk about your Mom and when you come back don't talk about your Dad.
If you have issues that you need help with go to someone else as right now neither Mom or Dad is going to be able to focus on your issues. See a school councilor or talk to an adviser or church minister (if you go to church) about a youth advocate.
Best of Luck through this hard time.
2006-09-15 23:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, sooner or later you'll be out of your mom's clutches. I am 29 and my parents have been divorced for 16 years. My mom still hates my dad. I just don't get involved any more, and haven't for a long time.
2006-09-15 22:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.u follow this .Your mom loves you and your dad . She is scared of loosing you to your dad and this is the truth . so your mom is loosing her control and talking bad about your dad to win you, please forgive her . You have stock of unlimited love you can love your mom and dad . Do not lose control over self. you fight with your mom because you loose your control. Be calm, concentrate on your career, personality. Help your mom and dad in their life .Your self and mind is gift of God and body is gift of mom and dad .Thanks to God and Mom and Dad. Handover your self mind and all your pains and problems to God with 100% faith in him with thanks for taking your truck load of burden on Him
2006-09-15 23:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by luckey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dispratie? If your dad taught you to spell your mum might have a point!
2006-09-15 22:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jotun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I WERE YOU, I WOULD PRAY AND ASK GOD TO BRING PEACE TO THE SITUATION AND TO GIVE YOU SOME SORT OF BALANCE IN YOUR LIFE. YOU KNOW, ASK HIM TO HELP YOU TO COPE WITH THINGS BETTER BY GIVING YOU STRENGTH SO THAT THINGS WON'T SO EASILY MOVE OR UPSET YOU. GOD BLESS YOU BABY GIRL!
2006-09-15 22:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋