2006-09-15 15:41:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes.
2006-09-15 15:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by mrkitties420 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Virginity is something between you and your God. Virginity is not something that you should EVER< EVER be ashamed o rembarassed about!! its something you should actually be proud of, in fact. I mean, think about it; you are saving yourself for the right man, and the right time ( hopefully the bonds of matrimony??) and this is a great thing. This decision could save you from many things that you DON'T want; unwanted pregnancies, unwanted STD's, and the feelings that come from a relationship where a guy just uses you because you will put out and then leaves because he has no reason to stay; HE'S had HIS cookies. Now, within a marriage, you don't have to worry about someone just using you JUST for sex ( hopefully... some marriages kinda fall short here.. but let's think positive, ok? Ok. ). And, before you ever get married, if either has been active , its always smart and respectful in these times, for both parties to be 'tested'. Also, there are any number of forms of birth control, that when doubled up on with a married couple, are %100 effective.
I waited. I was nearly 30 when I got married and I never had a pregnancy scare, a guy simply use me or the fear of any kind of STD. Yeah, I had offers and opportunities, but I wanted to lead a christian lifestyle and be a virgin when I got married. It sounds old fashioned, but look at all the heartache and risks I avoided. I was totally happy I waited, so if you want to wait, trust me-- You'll be glad you did.
2006-09-15 22:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by heatherlovespansies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! Until you get married. That way you can your spouse the one thing that you cherish the most. And hopefully he'll do the same for you.
I admire the fact that you are a still a virgin. I am one too, so you take comfort in the fact that you aren't alone in that.
I also admire the fact that you have respected yourself enough to stay a virgin as long as you have. If you feel that you do need to loose it, I'm not going to argue because It's not my life.
And you have the right to make your own decisions. I will warn you that if you do that before you get married that the person you might do it with won't respect you. And will probably only want that one thing.
Hope this helps. I also hope things work out well for you.
2006-09-16 03:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should!!! I will spare you the details about how you will not get pregnant and how you will not get any nasty STD's or even AIDS, but I will tell you about the emotional side.
You will save yourself A LOT of heartache by remaining a virgin until you are married. Why marriage? Sure some people will tell you to do it once you are with someone you love. But relationships don't last long these days and in the end YOU will be left heartbroken. I know sooo many girls who regret that they did not stay a virgin and they have so much baggae from other relationships. Sex should only be in a committed relationship, and the only TRULY committed relationship is marriage, if a guy can wait for you that long - until you are married to him - then that says a lot about his character and that means he will love you for YOU and not your body.
Remeber sex is a very special thing that should be shared with someone who is also special - wait til you're married and you will NOT regret it at all!!!
Good luck:)
2006-09-15 22:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can make that decision. How old are you? Are you in love with the person you are planning on having sex with? I have no idea what sex you are or how old you are buy I'm a mom with 3 teens and I'll tell you exactly what I've told them: Make sure that when you give the gift of yourself, you're giving it to the right person... because it's a gift you can only give once. Good luck... and if you do decide to give that gift away, make sure you protect yourself...
2006-09-15 22:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask that question, then I would stay a virgin. You shouldn't do anything unless you're absolutely sure you want to and are ready.
2006-09-15 22:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
staying a virgin is up to you..you will now when the time is right to have sex..dont just do it because you want too or someone else wants you to..this is your body and your feelings..trust me you will now when you are ready..
2006-09-15 22:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by shay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this one confuses me the most,and I guess my best answer is. It depends on how old you are,and if your doing it for Love and do you love the one who takes your virginity from you,or if you wanna stay pure until marrige
2006-09-15 22:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully its up to you, but i recomend staying virgin. What's the rush. Save yourself for your husband/wife so that he/she will feel special when you have had sex with he/she and only them!!!..if you know what i mean!!
2006-09-15 22:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jamie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u plan not to have a family of your own or if u plan to live your life alone or u might think that u will not find someone to love u.
2006-09-15 22:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋