think it is ok to talk to as many guys as they want to, as long as they are "Friends" but if a guy talks to one girl, she goes off and accuses HIM of cheating.
2006-09-15 15:40:01 · 24 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because broads are insecure and think they are right no matter what. they also have a sense of what is right and or wrong and no man is right. hence, the accusations of all men being cheaters. women feel that they can have guy friends when deep down they know if they are ever in need of a booty call those guy friends are the first ones that get called. why else would guys wanna hang around with a bunch of whiney @rsed girls. oh man, i am gonna piss some peoples off with this one.
2006-09-15 15:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think some women have just been hurt too many times to be able to accept any new man in having female friends. I think it all comes down to maturity and trust. I wouldnt trust a horny 18 year old, well actually I wouldnt trust a horny 40 year old either. haha but seriously, Trust is the big issue here. If he has cheated on you with a 'female friend' then you have the right to be jealous, but if the man has never done anything to indicate that he would cheat then female friends are okay.
Saying that females arent all as sweet as most would like to make out, There are alot of women that have cheated on their partners with their 'male friends'.
TRUST...
2006-09-15 22:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k maybe i can explain this a bit..
Men do not take hints very well.. women give hints and little flirt things that not all men pick up on.. like that touching the hair thing or a look in the eyes.. etc..
A women can tell when another women is flirting with her man and the man can't really see it..
I don't think men and women can stay.. "just friends" very long because.. the man friend is waiting for the girls bf to mess up so he can be there for her to lean on and .. same thing with a guy haveing a girl for a friend she is just waiting for her chance..
oh.. and women are good at reading body language.. (seeing the men flirting and other women flirting)
2006-09-15 22:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ibdreamin099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are this way. If a girl has a problem with a guy talking to another girl then she has a jealouly issue and/or doesn't trust you. If this is the case then it is going to get worse as the relationship goes on. I have married friends that are this way now. It is ridiculous you have to know the person that your with and if you don't like this quality that they exhibit then run for the door. My husband's friend is being harrassed at work because she thinks that he can't control himself at work. She calls him repeatedly. Take care
2006-09-15 22:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE , they are insecure....they think that the first girl you talk to is the one you are gonna leave her for and some guys do that same thing but all jealousy equals insecurity...if your girl is doing this then make her selfesteem go up by telling her shes really pretty, telling her she is the best girl you have met...things like that and when you guys are with someone else together then say things like that make her sound like you really love her (which you should) and most of the insecurity will go down....
2006-09-15 22:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends upon the situation, if your girl caught you talking with another girl but there is something between you and the girl that doesnt seem right like you are flirting with that girl for sure she would accuse of cheating. Girls always based there action on what they see so you cant blame them for being that ****** sometimes!
2006-09-15 22:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are territorial. We can have all the friends we want- male or female. You have to be hopelessly devoted to us. You can have the guys. But no chicks in the guy circle. It's just how we are wired- there is nothing you can do to change us.
2006-09-15 22:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lady in Pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys and girls can be friends. I don't know what girls you are dealing with that act like that. I don't. So I don't know what to tell you except they need to grow up and have trust... Sorry you have to deal with that.
2006-09-15 22:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha! i am guilty of that behavior! hahaha, well actually, it's because girls can always be loyal to their partner, but with guys, there's always this fear that they might get attracted to someone else just by talking. i know it's kind of unfair, but that's how things are.
2006-09-15 22:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, men are like that too.... We humans are territorial. If we were dogs we would be taking a leak and marking our territory on everything.. Just imagine that picture,,,
2006-09-15 22:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by tinamia1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋