i feel like my dad isnt a good dad..?

Question

everytime i try to talk to him when he nagges at me...my sudden feelings roll out and i cry...and then dad laughed at me when i cry cuz he thinks im being dramatic and pathetic..


im tired of him being mean and being unreasonable...he assumes every thing i do..
he never listens too me...he pouncese at everything bad i do..
i wish that he would understand me and not just being mean and not being respectful to my words..
he talks about everything in the wrong time and when im sad and i tell him"dad...please..im not in a mode to talk about that"he gets sooo angery he makes me go out side and stay out in the sun..till he is saticfied.

for god sakes he talkes about not doing sex while i was sick and when i was eatting...he would talk about religion...and when he talks about "you must know your sins before others"
i think to my self..


'why dont you look at your self before you go straight to my problems..

youll undertsand..

read my question "dad made me cry today"

your option that are off are...
i cant talk to him...his unreasonable..
i cant write to him...he will think im being pathetic

Answer 1

As a father of a beautiful daughter that I love with all my heart, my eyes fill with tears as I read this sad story. My Connie was the light of my life as she matured into the fine woman that she is today, and I would cherish every second we could spend together in my busy day.

Why a man would act this way, I cannot explain. The Godfather is always ready to listen, if you feel the need to talk.

Answer 2

yes, me again...i had posted an answer to your other questions. You seem to be coming to wits end with your father. I know he wants the best for (himself) and everyone around him. When e talks bad or rude...leave the room. When he yells at you...let him know you don't want to talk to a mean dad...you want a nice one. If he sends you outside again...leave...go to the police...that is child abuse. I know you don't want anything to hurt your father...but everyone has to stop somewhere. Do you have a mom...I know even mothers can't say much ( I am marring into a Korean family,,,i have seen allot). But i don't know your age, but you seem too have some troubles of at least 14/17 years old. You need to start getting wise...When he lets out all that be better than the others stuff...remind him of the 7 deadly sins...he's committing at least 3 of them....But all in all...you just gotta hang in there....Check this out...The young sister of the guy I am marring...She had to learn Piano....from the age of 4 now 25 she is in college on a Music scholarship...taking 3 other classes...and paying about $50,000 a year for school. I ak her what was she going to do when she graduate...she says...Play the Piano at church...Once a week for 20 minutes ....I don't get it...but it's to show other Korean people...about the family...It is a bunch of show...it's so sad...

Answer 3

If you cant talk to him or write him a letter, than you will just have to cope with it. Soon enough you will be able to get out of that house and be on your own. I know it must suck to have a dad that wont listen. Maybe find a Friend that will let you vent when you need it. Sometimes that can make you feel better. I feel for you honey. If any time you need to talk to someone or vent, you can always IM me. I will listen and not judge you.

Answer 4

I think you should really consider family counselling--and I say this as someone who has a degree and experience in Psychology. Your feelings are important and you have a right to have them and express them. There are real, physical consequences when we aren't able to do so. If you are concerned that your father would react badly to the suggestion, try scheduling an appointment with your school's Counsellor. At the very least, you will be able to speak to that person individually and I suspect you will also have the school counsellor's assistance in convincing your family to proceed appropriately.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Try talking to your dad, when things are not at a point where either of you feel you have to say those things at that very moment. When he brings up subjects you don't really want to talk about at the time, just be as patient as you can pretend to be with him, until it is over, but then, at a future date, go to him and ask him to tell you more about it. He will feel as if you really want to listen, and will begin to trust you when you say you would like to discuss things at a more convenient time. Then it will become easier for you to say that you would like to finish this or that first, and then discuss it, but then make sure you set that time aside to do so. For your father would not want to tell you those things if he didn't truly believe they weren't important to tell you. Take the time to really listen to him, and ask him questions as if you truly wish to understand his point of view. For you might just find out it makes a lot of sense, or he may find out by expounding upon it, that it doesn't make any sense at all.

Answer 7

Hon get help from a professional counselor or a close relative. One is qualified to deal with such problems the other can help in a familiar way without outside interference. And that is that!

Answer 8

Maybe he has a social communication problems or try to make a joke..Say what u not really satisfy to him .Yell at him .let he hear what u want to say.Leave him quickly.Let make him think properly.He is not a bad dad.If he is a bad dad, he will hurt you physically and do not want u to eat.

Answer 9

Talk to the counselor at your school. It sounds like you and your father don't know each other at all well. The counselor might be able to suggest some ways to improve the situation.

Good luck!

Answer 10

well it sounds like your dad is trying to be way over protected of you. where is your mom? that might have been a bad question to ask. sorry. you should just sit him down and explain to him that girls have different feelings about things then guys then if he does not take that serious you should just totally tune him out.