my sister's boyfriend is jealous even to the friends of my sister. He discouraged my sister in joining parties with her friends. He dont want her to have more friends. He thinks as if all are his rivals. is there anything wrong with him? what proably are the factors why he acted this way?
2006-09-15 15:36:24 · 11 answers · asked by ladyheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there.
he isn't jealous he is a control freak and what he is attempting or maybe succeding in is refered to as " isolate and conquer" to your sister re new her boundaries with this flip... because he will have it so she has nobody to turn to in any way and then he will abuse her.....
Good luck
2006-09-15 15:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by Adrian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a freak, he will not change, I hope your sister takes his behavior seriously and gets away from a.s.a.p. What causes him to act that way: Immaturity, no self control, possible personality disorder....like Paranoia, or Sociopathy. The cause of his behavior really doesn't matter, if your sister stays with him, it is highly likely that he will become physically abusive, there is no way that you can keep someone like him happy, even if she were to bend to his every desire, he will find a reason to get angry and jealous. Tell her to run!
2006-09-15 22:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Past relationships have alot to do with current state of mine. Also so men are pretty much crazy when it comes to having a woman to feed that emotional need to control the situation! And yes something is wrong with him! But ask your sister is this the kind of relationship she can grow to except & maybe raise kids in? THINK ABOUT IT!
2006-09-15 23:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by KATBLACK :) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there is a big trust issue. Either he was hurt really bad in the past or he is going out doing things that he is not supposed to be doing. Plus a lot of guys feel like they need to have control in different situations.
2006-09-15 22:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by vsecrets24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys feel unloved, competitiveness develops when they see their partner having a good time with another person other then them. They feel unloved. They want to be their everything, and dont allow their partner space and time, this brings down alot of relationships
2006-09-15 22:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by §†reet R¥dA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't say, cause I dont know him personally.....but I know from experience that it is a real problem, and it will only get worse....she should get out while she still has some control of her life....
2006-09-15 22:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Dm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's insecure and controlling it's a personality flaw those guys usually get abusive at some point also.
2006-09-15 22:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mothers hooking up with other men while married to their fathers causes them to be very possessive.
2014-03-31 19:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by That Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is very insecure...maybe he's been cheated on before...or maybe he's the cheater...she needs to leave now...any longer he will have complete control over her...she got to stop it now....that kind of guy WILL become abusive.....
2006-09-15 22:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure with himself, period.
2006-09-15 22:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by white_thunder888 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋