I was recently legaly seperated but now we got back together and its working out good , during that time I was seperated I had sex with a old freind just once and I have been worried she could be pregnant. She had her tubes tied 17 years ago and she thinks i am nuts, She has had 2 normal periods and even took a home pregnancy test just to shut me up which turned out negative but I am a worry wart.
What do you guys think am I just be stupid and need to stop worrying about her being pregnant?
Also please don't flame me I am just a nervious person who always fears the worst with everything
2006-09-15 15:35:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
It sounds like your conscience is extremely guilty over doing what you did during your separation. If she has had 2 normal periods and a pregnancy test is negative, I think you can relax. You will ruin your current relationship with your constant worrying about this. Focus on that instead of driving the other woman crazy with your insecurities.
But, let this be a lesson to you. If you have unprotected sex with any woman, pregnancy is the chance you take. Remember how you felt about this if you decide to stray again. It should keep you in line.
2006-09-15 19:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by sidnee_marie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over it, and live in the moment. Your relationship is working out focus on that. Deal with life as it comes. If the subject comes up of what happened during the separation be honest. If she IS pregnant than tell her as soon as you know. You are not being stupid she could be pregnant but, not very likely. I know someone who got pregnant after having her tubes tied for more than 10 years. Don't let this worry you more, I just want you to know that it is a possibility.
2006-09-15 23:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by larechiga26 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, If she took 2 pregnancy tests that were negative; I would guess she is most likely not pregnant and you are indeed being a worry wart.
As far as her tubes, It also depends if she had them just tied or if she had them tied and burnt. If just tied, then she can get pregnant although, the chances are slim.
2006-09-15 22:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by GeorgiaGurl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you've taken the precautionary....maybe have some guilt issues on top of nerves?,,,if she ends up preggos i would say "immaculate conception"!!! tubes tide; 2 neg EPT's, and she's not worried, don't waste ur time focusing on this - start focusing on restoring ur love life. Sounds like ur more afraid of getting caught by ur wife! If ur feeling guilty about having sex while separated and it is eating u alive, then maybe u should address that...take ownership for the 1 night fling and move on. if ur partner is understanding, this will blow over! good luck!
2006-09-15 22:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by drcil 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you are being paranoid... the odds of her being pregnant after having her tubes tied plus having 2 periods and a negative test would be a miracle... so relax
2006-09-15 23:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Firs tof all you spelled nervous wrong. It is fine. You need to relax and not worry if she acctually had her tubes tied then it is impossible without a doubt to have her be pregnan if you are still worried keep checking up on her if she is getting fatter than she might be but if she keeps within her average weight range than she is not. I pesonally suggest you stop worrying
2006-09-15 22:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mytemouse 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she cant be pregnant ,you know that so what are you really worried about ,is it that your wife doesn't know about this woman,are you afraid of her finding out ? I'm just wondering because after 2 periods ,you know she is not pregnant,.may be deep down you are hoping she is ,its for you to work out,your the only one who knows what you really want.
2006-09-16 05:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Based on everything you said, I would think that you are in the clear...she's not pregnant.
2006-09-15 22:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by baby_girl_1219 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gee you weren't too nervous or worried to sleep with her were you? lol Guilty conscious??? Does your wife know you were sleeping around while separated?? Real nice.
2006-09-15 22:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Island Queen 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Forget about it! :)
2006-09-15 22:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by jade.made 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋