I just have a quick question. I am a black woman and I'm attracted to all types of men, both inside and outside of my race, although I've only dated black men. Recently, I was asked by a very attractive white man if I wanted to go out on a date sometime. I haven't responded yet, but we did swap numbers and we have talked on the phone a few times. He seems like a very nice and down to earth person that I would really like to get to know better. But, I'm a little hesitant to pursue a relationship, because I've been told by close friends that white men only use black women for sex and then dump them "like yesterday's garbage." On the other hand, I have heard that white men cherish and treat not just black women, but all women nicely. So I was just wondering why white men like black women?Is it all sexual, emotional, both, or does it depend on the person?
Thanks
2006-09-15 15:31:35 · 14 answers · asked by Angel Face 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We prefer to date who we find attractive. Maybe its the men you are meeting. In my personnal standards, I would date someone i am attracted too, regardless of race.
Some people like their on race, which is a big simalaritie (people look for similarities too have a strong relationship) Anyway..
2006-09-15 15:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
I say if you enjoy talking with him go for it !Because they say the same about black men that they prefer white woman over black woman.
Personally i've dated both and they all have there own ways no matter what color.I would say yes depending on the person.
2006-09-15 18:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sassee 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the person and the man if he is someone you would be interested in then go for it. Race or color should not matter if you like him then go for it. Good Luck
2006-09-15 15:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I nearly married a black girl, she asked my parents could she marrry me I was no where about, did not see her the next day.
2016-07-11 05:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Phil21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the person, not the color. I have been there, and it was a mutual feeling. I guess you can ask why do Hispanics date whites and blacks. You see more interracial these days, than 30 years ago.
Do not let it bother you, it is their thing.
2006-09-15 16:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
you can't assume you know what a persons motives are, i mean who can help loving a black woman lol. get to know the man, don't let fear and speculation block you from potential happiness
2006-09-15 15:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by imperial1931 2 · 14⤊ 1⤋
To maintain the equilibrium
2006-09-15 16:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Seagull 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he likes you for YOU. Maybe he thinks you're cute and it has nothing to do with the color of your skin.
2006-09-17 14:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by alwaysright 3 · 15⤊ 0⤋
take a chance 4 future incounters! or you'll never know!
2006-09-15 15:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
You know it is like this, people prefer things differently, some like ice-cream and some like chocolates. In your case, he prefer chocolate that's why he likes you.
2006-09-15 15:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by Greenfullmoon 2 · 5⤊ 6⤋