1 month ago the boy i had a crush on,asked me out and told me that he's in love with me.and that he really loves me alot. now,we dated for less than a month,about 3 weeks. And today we were at his house watching T.V. and we started to make out,then he told me that i look smoking hot tonight,that he's crazy about me and my body etc.and he asked me if i wanna have sex with him. If he asked me that after only a month,does that mean he doesn't love me and only lied to me that he was loving me,only to have sex with me..or does that mean that he loves me and that is why he wants me??
2006-09-15 15:25:54 · 16 answers · asked by lizzie a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are only dating for 1 month.But he first asked me out 1 year ago.And one of his friends told me that he likes me since last year. I think he loves me,but then maybe he is only using me.And i really like him alot but i wouldn't want to lose my virginity with a boy that only used me for sex..
2006-09-15 15:35:37 · update #1
That means you have a smokin' hot body and he is attracted to you, obviously. I think you are reading too much into it...you should just go with the flow...
2006-09-15 15:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u are in love with someone u think about them allot and u want to have sex with the person as a way of showing your love for the person.
2006-09-15 22:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whichever your gut instinct tells you is probably the case. If he doesn't really seem that into you, and just more into what he can out of you, you should be getting a vibe. And you also should be able to tell if its just that he loves you. Take things slow. Either way, your relationship is moving a bit too fast.
2006-09-15 22:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by kachelsachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no. Three weeks of dating is not long enough to know that you're in love-especially if you're young. Of course he's saying those things-he wants you to give it up. If he really respects you (trust, love, and respect all go together), then he won't pressure you. He'll wait til you're comfortable. After all, your pleasure should be just as important as his, right? If he just can't wait, then you should dump him. I guarantee he'll drop you soon after.
2006-09-15 22:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by sportyblush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell if its love coz love doesnt develop for weeks... and why is he too fast in asking you that? But I think that he is only after for sexual activities... but if he loves you, he would understand if you dont want to...
2006-09-15 22:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by Rika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a hint for you....if you're dating someone for only a month he doesn't love you.
He can like you a lot but real love takes longer.
2006-09-15 22:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, pretty much you answered your own question.
Tell him you have a 3 month rule and see how fast he finds a skank who'll do the funky cold medina with him.
2006-09-15 22:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being old fashion... if he is in love with you he would respect your wishes on that subject but please be smart and use birth control. There is a difference in being in love and just loving someone along with being attracted to you. Chances are that is it. He hasn't known you long enough to be in love with you. Use wisdom in your decision.
2006-09-15 22:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by bugjuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may love you but right now you should test him and see how much he loves you by telling him you are not ready to have sex just right now and if he stays then he loves you but if he leave then you can answer your own question good luck
2006-09-15 22:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like he probably wants you for sex, judging by the way your describing your situation.
2006-09-15 22:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by Coche 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋