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On what ground/s should a person get a divorce and is this approve by God? Give Bible reference/s

2006-09-15 15:22:31 · 9 answers · asked by charmaine f 5 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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God, the Originator of marriage, designed it to be a permanent union. But is there any Scriptural reason for a person to divorce his or her mate—and one that would allow for the possibility of remarrying? Jesus addressed this matter by declaring: “I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except on the ground of fornication, and marries another commits adultery.” (Matthew 19:9) Sexual infidelity by a mate is the only ground for a divorce that will allow the innocent mate to remarry.

In addition, the Bible’s words at 1 Corinthians 7:10-16, while encouraging marriage mates to stay together, allow for separation. Some, after trying very hard to preserve their marriage, feel they have no choice but to separate. What can be acceptable Scriptural grounds for such a step?

One is willful nonsupport. When getting married, a husband assumes the responsibility of providing for his wife and children. The man who willfully fails to provide the material necessities of life “has disowned the faith and is worse than a person without faith.” (1 Timothy 5:8) So separation is possible.

Another is extreme physical abuse. So then, if a mate physically abuses his wife, the victim may separate. (Galatians 5:19-21; Titus 1:7) “Anyone loving violence [God’s] soul certainly hates.” Psalm 11:5.

Another ground for separation is the absolute endangerment of a believer’s spirituality—one’s relationship with God. When a mate’s opposition, perhaps including physical restraint, has made it impossible to pursue true worship and has imperiled the believer’s spirituality, then some believers have found it necessary to separate. Matthew 22:37; Acts 5:27-32.

However, if divorce is pursued under such circumstances, one would not be free to enter a new marriage. According to the Bible, the only legitimate ground for divorce that permits remarriage is adultery or “fornication.” Matthew 5:32.

The Bible allows only one reason for getting a divorce that frees a person to remarry, and that is fornication (Greek, porneia, gross sexual immorality). If fornication is committed, then the innocent mate may decide whether to get a divorce or not. Matthew 5:32.

After telling the Pharisees that the Mosaic concession of divorcing their wives was not the arrangement that had prevailed “from the beginning,” Jesus said: “I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except on the ground of fornication, and marries another commits adultery.” (Mt 19:8, 9)


Marriage involves two people with differing personalities learning to develop common interests and working together toward common goals. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, not a casual agreement that can be lightly abandoned. In many countries, divorce is not difficult to obtain, but in the eyes of a Christian, the marriage relationship is sacred. It is ended only for a very serious reason. (Matt. 19:9) Christian spouses can avail themselves of wise counsel from the Bible, support from fellow Christians, and a close, prayerful relationship with God. A successful marriage endures, and over the years, it brings happiness and contentment to husband and wife. More important, it brings honor to God, the Originator of marriage.

2006-09-15 18:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by BJ 7 · 0 0

God does approve divorce on the grounds of adultery for male and female. That is found in Jer. 3:8
There is also a verse in the Bible (I will re-post it when I find it,I am still looking)..but it also approves it to for abuse; weather it be physical or mental or sexual abuse. I divorced my ex-for abuse. If I hadn't I would more likely be dead right now! I asked my pastor what was the right thing to do about remarrying, and he told me about the other verse. I wish I had marked it. I'll look for it.

**I came back, but noitced Bill below covered my verse already. He done a great job! That was what I was looking for when I prevoius wrote. So, no need on re-covering it again. Just wanted you to know that I did come back and didn't forget. God bless.

2006-09-15 15:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by sdrose17 4 · 0 0

He's approved of my divorces 5 times!

2006-09-15 15:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Donna 3 · 0 0

Actually theres a scripture in the bible that states got hates divorce and the only scriptural grounds for divorce is adultery

2006-09-15 16:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by hispeach128 2 · 0 0

No GOD doesnt approve getting divorce but he wouldnt want us to be unhappy thats why he gave us a mind so we can deside for our selfs GOD knows we are not perfect grounds for divorce is cheating- abused- lieing-

2006-09-15 15:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Jesus thoroughly forbade divorce. it quite is why the Catholic Church nevertheless teaches that divorce and remarriage is a sin. a valid marriage keeps as long as the two the husband and spouse are alive. A civil divorce does not end the marriage interior the eyes of God or interior the eyes of the Roman Catholic Church. To get married returned whilst already married is adultery for the two human beings in contact interior the hot so-stated as marriage. it is one in all the numerous subject concerns on which the Roman Catholic Church is right, and approximately which maximum different church homes are incorrect. little question, Catholics commit sins, yet a minimum of we are in a position to seem to our Church for honest coaching approximately what's sinful - whether we don't pick to take heed to the reality. Peace be with you.

2016-10-15 01:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Never Approved! But is accepted by Him for Grounds of Fornication.

2006-09-15 15:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by S Q 1 · 0 0

Hi Charmaine f

NOPE!!!!!! Here are two.... There are many more, two should be enough.

Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.

Mat 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

Do have a good day and a happy marriage.

2006-09-15 15:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by popeye 4 · 0 0

Unfortunately not!

Two come to mind:
Read what Christ says about divorce.
The Ten Commandments.

2006-09-15 15:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by aaaaaaa a 1 · 0 0

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